Using Male Psychology to Win Him Back!

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Article - (28 May 2010)

5 Comments - (Newest, 11 June 2010)

A female age 36-40, molson5070 writes:

How to win back your ex boyfriend can seem like a daunting task, but with some simple tips, you can have him crawling back to you in no time.

Unlike most information about how to win back your ex I've seen on the web, this guide focuses solely on how to win back an Ex Boyfriend.

This is because the trick to win back your ex boyfriend is using specific male psychology to push his "hot buttons".

Here are 6 simple steps that will almost certainly get him to come back to you.

bDon't Let Him Know You Miss Him/b

If he knows you miss him, he'll figure he can get you back whenever he wants. You need to act like you don't miss him anymore.

So don't talk to your ex boyfriends friends about him or call him up to tell him that you miss him. If you talk to him, act like you did when you first met.

It might be hard to not bring up the break up, but you're going to have to suck it up if you want to win back your ex boyfriend.

Everyone wants what they don't have, and this is especially true for relationships!

bAgree with the Break Up/b

Your first step is to agree with the breakup. This is one of those specific male psychological tricks that will make him feel more attracted to you, and have him questioning if he made the right decision breaking up with you.

Simply tell him that you agree, and that the best thing for you guys was to take a break

bDon't Be Jealous/b

It is very important when trying to win back your boyfriend to not get jealous.

If you see him hanging out with other girl, act like you don't care, or even better, like your happy for him. There is nothing that turns a guy off more than someone who is jealous.

bLaugh and Smile/b

Make him remember why he fell in love with you. Be sure to laugh and smile when you're around him, and he will unconsciously feel attracted to you. Don't underestimate this step, it is very important when trying to win back your boyfriend. If your sad, it will push him away further. Just try smiling and laughing and see the difference it makes.

bDon't Dig Into the Heavy Stuff/b

When your ex gets back in touch, DO NOT start talking to her about your relationship right away!

Even if he wants you back, he's probably not ready to talk about the break-up. Instead, pretend as if you had never dated.

Keep the conversation playful and fun. This will help win back your ex boyfriend by putting him at ease and allowing you to gradually nudge him back into a relationship rather than scaring him away.

bDrive Him Crazy/b

Make yourself appear sexy and not needy. A sexy woman with a LIFE is a big turn on to a guy.

Make his friends want you so that HIS FRIENDS are constantly talking about you. Careful not to overdo it. Don't try to sleep with his friends, just flirt with him. Also don't bring up your ex, and change the subject if they do. It will drive him crazy that you didn't talk about him.

Remember to laugh and have fun. You want to seem like you've moved on. Trust me, he won't able to help but feel jealous! If you want to win back your ex boyfriend fast, then this will work wonders.

Get more tips here: a href="http://hubpages.com/hub/getting-back-your-ex-boyfriend" target="_top"Getting Back Ex Boyfriend/a- Complete Guide

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A female reader, Emma_zee +, writes (11 June 2010):

Well as much true love and everything may sound brilliant, it's not really! After a certain time passes in a relationship is when you actually love a person and it doesn't feel anything like the initial early stage of a relationship. Its all about keeping the games going and sparks flying these days. So a little bit tug of war won't hurt anyone. A true relationship with (almost) unconditional love takes a lot of time. Nqqo matter how much a person is in nlove with you at the early stage of a relationship, there is still a lot of hormones going. When he says i can die for you at first...he will probably die for you out of foolishness, then comes a point when he will rather kill you.....that's when relationships start to fall apart. If people can survive that stage then at a point time will come when he will truly die for you and that won't require any trickery etc etc. But anyway, initially for young people it's all mind games, ego boost etc etc that keeps the fun going. Anyway, love respect kindness aren't the only package a relationship comes from....people have different personalities. People fall in nlove with players too...that's because challenge is a huge psychological aspect that push starts the process of falling in love. But the kind of thing you are talking about usually takes time for most people. Some people are just grnunly good like my ex..who loves me from day one. That's because his personality is such that he had some kind of imprinting in his mind about the role of a gf...it really had nohing to do with me, he would love respect and care for any first person that came in his life. People are different. The above article is not applicable on all guys but definitely a huge proportion of male because for a lot of male, its about the chase, the win and the trophy!