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writes:Hi this is an update to a post i wrote on the 18th may please help me.I did leave my h/b and i am living in a womens refugenow for a month iam finding it very hard to stay away from my husband he promises me he will never cheat on me ever or lie again he wants to live the rest of his life making up for all the hurt he has caused.(he has cheated at least 3 times that i know of in our 20 yrs of marriage)I have really tried to stay away frm him and want to forgive him but i still have got nagging doubts if he is sincere or not as he still gets angry and he has hit me again and he has told me that if i dont belive he is sorry then get my divorce but he will never stop loving me.I do love him but i am afraid to be on my own so that is one reason why i thinking of going back to him one minute i hate him the next i want him what is wrong with me?He has moved my son and his girlfriend into the house now as he could not afford to run it he wants me to put them on the morgage so in 12 mths they can take it over and we can get a place just for us and start afresh(he took a woman into the house thats why i wont stay there)what advice can you give me i still need your help.Thank you for reading sorry its long x
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 June 2009): Hi........please do not go back.. This man has repeatedly cheated on you and has hit you too. He has no respect for you. He has wasted enough of your life with his lies and abuse. He has so little respect for you as a person that he took another woman to the house you shared! Im sorry to spell that out like that but i hope by reading it, you will have confidence again in your decision to leave. You did the right thing! You know in your heart he will never change. Things probably seem very hard right now living in the refuge - but you are proving what a strong woman you are. This could be the very start of a new hopeful future,a future in which you can achieve your dreams and live the life you wanted to.......take care and good luck!
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