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female
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:Hi! I have a relationship problem. My boyfriend is 12 years older than me. He is currently working and i am still in Varsity. The problem is, he was married and has a child from a previous relationship. He doesn't call or give me any attention but insists that he loves me, but the problem is he is always busy with his work.He can stay up to 2 weeks without calling and switches off his phone at night, worst, we have been dating for 2 years but he still hasn't introduced me to his parents! Does he love me? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 May 2008): Almost sounds like he is still married and living with someone. I suggest you move on.
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (8 May 2008):
 It looks like you love him more than he loves you.
He loves his job more than he loves you.
He thinks that you need him more than he needs you.
Are you willing to settle for this status quo ?
Do you want to put your life on 'Hold!'
This relationship plane is flying on auto pilot round and round in circles.
It is up to you to change it's course.
Take the challenge .
Time to get out of your comfort zone.
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reader, Tisha-1  +, writes (8 May 2008):
 Hi, this doesn't sound promising to me. It's been two years and you haven't met his family?
Let me ask a couple of questions for clarification. Have you met his child and his other friends? Do you go over to his house or meet elsewhere? Can you ring him at his house?
You see where I'm going with this, but I just want to be certain of the facts before I can give you my advice. Thanks.
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (8 May 2008):
What is he getting from this relationship? Love and sex when he wants it? How do you know he is even divorced? He could just be using you as a mistress and not answering your calls as he's at home with his wife.
It sounds to me like he's using you when he wants to and ignoring you the rest of the time. He's not going to change or treat you better because you let him treat you this way so he has no reason to.
Tell him that unless he treats you like a real girlfriend you don't want to see him ever again.
Find a man who loves you and treats you right, not just as a convenient dial-a-girl.
Good Luck!! xx
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