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Troubles with my boyfriend... the girl he lost his virginity to is at our college and in the mix

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Question - (31 January 2007) 1 Answers - (Newest, 31 January 2007)
A female United Kingdom age 26-29, **mandz** writes:

I've been with my boyfriend for almost 4 months; we've been best friends for 2 and half years and 20 months ago we dated for almost 2 months, so we've gone through everything together. Last year he went out with this girl for under 3 months and lost his virginty to each other. They only slept together twice before she dumped him and it took him 6 months to get over her. We've been sleeping together for 3 months and even though I trust him I can't help but think he might still have feelings for her or get them back. We all go to the same college and have mutual friends so it's reallt difficult to all get along as I can't stand to be near her. Please help! I have no idea what to do, I'm arguing constantly with my boyfriend and it's really affecting my college work and exams too.

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A female reader, AskEve United Kingdom +, writes (31 January 2007):

AskEve agony auntYou need to trust him and stop being so jealous of her. It's YOU he's chosen to be with not her, remember that. All this constant arguing and bickering with him will do the exact opposite of what you hope to achieve, it will throw him into her arms so come on, give the guy a break.


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