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Together 12 years, 5 kids, and split up in October. I want him back!

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Question - (30 November 2007) 1 Answers - (Newest, 30 November 2007)
A female United States age 41-50, *ad and Lonely in 07 writes:

Hello I was with my man for about 12 years we have five children which we recently had twin daughters about 5 months ago, we broke up last October, and he just recently got in another relationship. But he still calls me, we still sleep together, and he tells me he loves me all the time. He says he's just trying somehing new and he's taking it a day at a time.He says he doest even see himself being with her for more than a year. I love him and want to be back with him. What should I do?

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A female reader, eyeswideopen United States +, writes (30 November 2007):

eyeswideopen agony auntFirst off stop sleeping with him. If he loves you so much he wouldn't need to "try something new" while at the same time having sex with you. How absolutely callous of him! Tell him he can take his "one day a time" some place else. Make sure you explain your terms for his coming back very clearly and stand by them. You owe it to your five kids to have some backbone here.

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