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anonymous
writes:Hi I was wondering if anyone could give me any help as to what is going on .A while ago we were fwb and I said didn't want that so didn't see him again . then last June he asked to see me and we hung out as friends realising we got on really well and had lots in common , he was really keen and invites me out nearly every night for few weeks then whilst on a night out I stupidly asked what was happening to which he replied" aw why are you asking this now when we are getting on so well? And proceeded to go quiet . he got back in touch and we resumed our friendship . I went round watched movies , we spooned but nothing more and it felt as if we were getting closer was so nice. Then he would go quiet and come back again . over Christmas I saw him a lot and when picking him up one evening was even introduced to his family . after that he has gone quiet again and I'm at a loss why. We seem to get closer and I think okay man pull back be cool and he does return but he doesn't make a sexual move on me . he has acknowledged we get on really well and I know he must be attracted a bit as he kind of persued me in June but I don't get the closeness then quiet just when I think maybe we are getting there. I know he had a major hurt in past but I also know that if a man wants something hell go after it so this time I've completely not contacted at all in the hope he will miss me and perhaps things will progress. I'm scared he won't but I'm thinkingi have to let him miss me. I'm also scared he has freindzoned me as I am in love with him. He always cuddles me and is affectionate , always touching when watching films etc but I don't know what this is . can you help?
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 January 2016): Am even more frustrated now , stayed over at his yesterday, lounged all over each other before bed then he spooned me (he was naked) all night talk about frustrating , I nearly had a heart failure becauseiy was literally beating out of my cheat because he was so close , does he know what he is doing ? Does he not fancy me that way if doesn't make move as him being naked is a killer
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 January 2016): Thank you for replying.
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (4 January 2016):
 It sounds to me like he does not want to get in to a relationship probably because he has got commitment issues. I think this is more about himself rather than how he feels about you. He just doesn't want it to get serious so he is keeping you at arms length. This is unfair to you when you have feelings for him therefore it is time to tell him the truth, tell him you love him and that friendship is not enough and if he cannot offer you more then you don't want any more contact. Its the kindest thing to do for yourself.
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