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writes:This sounds so weird, I'm scared I'm cracking up!!! I'm obsessed with lookin at pics of my ex's ex on her web page!! I'm no longer with my ex, I don't even like him no more, but I keep going to his ex (whom he was with for 4 years) page and staring at her pics. She's not pretty but she thinks she is so in most of the pics she's got her kit off and to be fair she has a nice body but thats about it. Now, I cant work out if I'm jealous or something and why would I be??? I know my ex really loved her and planned to marry her, when I was with him tho it was not that serious although I would of liked it to be, he just didnt feel as much for me as he did for her. I'm not one to brag but I know I'm pretty and I also think Im alot nicer person than his ex (apparently she is a right cow) so it used to really frustrate me that he was so in love with her but not bothered much about me. But why do I keep going to her pictures??? And how do I stop it?
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reader, starfairy +, writes (30 March 2008):
 You obviously compared yourself to her throughout the relationship, it must have been hard to live up to the pedestal it sounds like he put her on.
Habits are hard to break, I bet it doesn't make you feel great when you look at her photos either.
Keep busy, if you feel like you are going to look at her photos, do something else. Go for a drive, have a bubble bath, re-do your makeup.
In time you will get over how she made you feel, and she won't occupy any space in your mind whatsoever.
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