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Think he may be my soulmate...but he could be gay!

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Question - (6 March 2007) 4 Answers - (Newest, 6 March 2007)
A female United States age 41-50, *ade writes:

Hi,

I really need help!!!...I think I've found soul mate...this person someone I know for years...but I've fell in love with him about years ago...we are not together, we've spoken couple of times but one day when he was playing in a big club...I was there and he came to next to me and we both just could'nt for minutes but we were stairing each other's eyes for while..then I jus knew he was my soul mate...because I never felt anything this beautiful...so time past I was so shy to go and talk to him...and people were telling that he was a gay man...but I never beleived them..but time passes and I tried to give my number to his friends to help me..but I finally felt so naive and gave up on going do sonething...but I haven't seen him for months and I can't seem to forget about him..no matter what he is I still love him..even if he is gay ....please help me and tell me what to do...something in my heart tells me that he is my soul mate...why do i think like that...if he is gay..?

thank you in advance

DD

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A female reader, dade United States +, writes (6 March 2007):

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Thank you for your help....I appreciate your time guys...I didnt mean to offend anybody...please understand my situation...I dont think he has that virus anyway ...I feel like I am loosing my mind about this guy...I know It sounds really stupid but I had some feelings for this guy...either he is gay or straight...I try so many times forget about this guy but why do I think he is so special for me...I wanna know if he is my soul mate or not?

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (6 March 2007):

Thank you guys for your help....I didn't mean to write a title about my question. Please I dont want anybody to get offend it...You may be right about the AIDS comment...but not all the gays are having that virus...and I dont think he has any AIDS to spread out...

I am a big fan of this person anyway...and in love still...no matter how silly it sounds...I have been telling my self that I am crazy and not thinking straight about this guy and everything....But I care about him so much that I even lost my mind for him....I believe things happen for a reason...and even I am hurt and still feel the same way...but He helped me so many times and he helped so many people in many ways...he is like an angel:)...I just want to find out that if he is my soul mate or not?...

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (6 March 2007):

Im a bit offended by that comment !!!!

And another thing are you so in love that you are willing to risk the chance of AIDS???

Just because he might be gay do not risk the chances of spreading aids...you can get aids from anybody gay straight black white.I really think you should do your research a bit more before posting such a silly remark.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (6 March 2007):

Well....I have always heard that if it acts like a duck walks like a duck and looks like a duck then .......It is a duck!! There are many different types of love and you need to figure out which type it is that you are feeling! You also need to find out if he really is gay, cause believe me its bad enough to share a man with another woman who you can compete with let alone another man!!! And another thing are you so in love that you are willing to risk the chance of AIDS???

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