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These are my vitals. Am I hot... or not?

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Question - (15 May 2006) 12 Answers - (Newest, 19 May 2006)
A female , *ngel ron writes:

Hey guys

Do you think iam attractive basicslly these are my vital stats

iam 28 years old 5ft inches tall dark skinned dark eyes asian origin short to medium length hair my dress size is size 6 to 8 but mainly an eight my shoe size is 4

Please give some honest answers I weigh 6 and a half to 7 stones

Give me some honest answersplease i need to know

thanks guys

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A reader, anonymous, writes (19 May 2006):

++Well then we agree, Martini! After all, I did write she "...might be attractive." ha ha. Just giving you a hard time.++

Of course! [wink]

++PS: LOVE many of your responses to the various questions.++++

And thank you. 8]

++mostly because women with abit of meat on them accept that they are over weight and the know this++

I think because I am lacking sleep, but my mouth mentally watered when I read this line. Semi-related, I confirm that for myself, though I find many magazine models attractive, I actually prefer women with some meat. (Woah! Deja vu!)

++so over weight people are more likly to have sex with the light on and wear a little less then a young thin chick++

Agree with this one too. A past companion before my recent had a problem making love in the light. Always had to be dimmed or dark. She was thin @ about 5-3 weighed about 100. My recent companion was about 5-4 and weighed at 115. We did it anywhere...

[yawn]

I vote meat!

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A female reader, lisa_01 Australia +, writes (19 May 2006):

lisa_01 agony auntWell i calculated your BMI and your tiny, if anything put on some weight, i would not worry about if your attractive or not, unless your going into the modeling business, its sad but true, as humans we do judge on first apperances,everyone does it,but what one person thinks is unattractive there will be always someone else who thinks different. i think martini had a very good point in his last posting, i think insecure attractive female syndrome might be the case here.

I was watching a t.v program awhile ago here in Australia and professionals said that women who are a little over weight are actually more secure and happy with there bodies then what the thin model look alikes are, mostly because women with abit of meat on them accept that they are over weight and the know this,so over weight people are more likly to have sex with the light on and wear a little less then a young thin chick, the said the more thinner and attractive women of today are alot shy and try hide there inprefections so people dont find something wrong with them.just some food for though for everyone.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (19 May 2006):

Well then we agree, Martini! After all, I did write she "...might be attractive." ha ha. Just giving you a hard time. PS: LOVE many of your responses to the various questions.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (19 May 2006):

Actually, I find that the hottest... [ponders] Let me rephrase that... I find that many females that are physically attractive - whom also wear a lot of make-up, dress up every time they go somewhere, etc, etc, are also the ones who are actually very insecure about themselves and their relationships. For her to ask that question, it's possible that she IS very attractive, BUT also fall into that same or similar category of insecure attractive females.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (19 May 2006):

Cupcake, you've GOT to be kidding---please tell us you are! You're nearly 30 years old and you're asking this very juvenille question??? I'm of Asian heritage also (half), and I hate to sound harsh, I really do, but quite frankly, I'm embarrased for you. Judging from your stats, you might be attractive. Beautiful? I doubt it. Hot? Not. It's really very simple: If you have to ask, you're not. Sorry.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (18 May 2006):

So did you get an answer from if you asked yourself when you're 40? Or am I lost and it wasn't a question?

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A female reader, Angel ron +, writes (17 May 2006):

Angel ron is verified as being by the original poster of the question

Angel ron agony auntthanbks guys hey by the way from this questio I wasasking my self how will ia look like when iam 40

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A reader, anonymous, writes (15 May 2006):

++A little too much makeup... a little too short a dress... and you'd be all "me love you long time".++

HAHAHAHAHAHA... Damn you're hilarious! I wish I can laugh out-loud at work. If I do, rice and chicken might shoot out of my nose... Now isn't that attractive? [laughs]

Right.

Based on your stats Ms. Asian Anon, I have no idea. Based on superficiality alone - a few things are missing: 1) facial features, 2) physical features, 3) way you dress, and 4) type of guy that likes those features and style.

I mean, if you look at all of my ex's, they all are Asian yes, BUT they all look different. One has a super friggin hot body, with huge stiff breasts, gorgeous long legs, umm, yeah, and another is petite, and 'average' looking, another has a nice butt, small breasts, another is too thin for my liking but I was attracted to her maturity (substance), etc. Mind you, well, enough about me.

Yes, so those four things are missing in your stats.

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A male reader, Yos Netherlands +, writes (15 May 2006):

Yos agony auntNumbers tell us nothing about attractiveness. I've met people with 'perfect stats' and sterotyped good looks that are incredibly un-hot. Similarly, I've met some eccentric shaped / eccentric looking people who are very hot indeed.

Personally, I think being hot is only partly to do with your looks. Someones aura is much more important: their confidence and how their personality radiates. We use our eyes, but we also use a lot more than in determining someones attractiveness.

The best way for you to be attractive is (painfully enough) for you to stop thinking about it and just be yourself.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (15 May 2006):

A little bit full of self tho for my liking. It isn't all about looks honey!

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A female reader, bonym United Kingdom +, writes (15 May 2006):

bonym agony auntMy friend, vital stats dont mean anything, I mean I have what many people say is the "perfect body" I am slim (uk size 10) but curvy, shaped like an hour glass, flawless skin, long black hair, etc etc but yet still not many men seem to find me attractive and neither do I find myself attractive. From what you have described yes you do sound pretty attractive but beauty is in the eye of the beholder so to some you will b ehot and others may not necessarily think so, but stop worrying, you sound perfectly fine to me xXx

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A male reader, harshbutfair United Kingdom +, writes (15 May 2006):

harshbutfair agony auntA little too much makeup... a little too short a dress... and you'd be all "me love you long time".

But seriously young lady, you sound hot for any male who is into their cute asian poonani.

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