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writes:I'm a guy in my late 40's and I have feelings for a girl who is 30 years old. I am training her and as a result we meet up a couple of times a week. I know that she likes me and we get on brilliant together but because of my professional situation I don't want to risk asking her out.Is there anything you can recommend that I can do that is not going to cause me problems down the road? Reply to this Question
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reader, Who  +, writes (24 April 2009):
 Are you going to be her supervisor/boss after you train her? If not I don’t think there is any ethical, moral or legal barriers. I don’t think the age difference is a problem either. If you end up going out and working in the same location, it will be a little awkward if you break up, but lots of adults do this and deal with it. I would take Roxy’s advice posted below.
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reader, Roxy1989  +, writes (23 April 2009):
 well you are both adults arent you? if she was 18 it would be a different story. You cant hide your love for her.. if its only a short period that you have to train her ,I would recommend you to wait.. and if its going to take a while,just be open and honest to everybody , they will undersand .. afterall we are only humans with feelings.
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