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anonymous
writes:I am 19 in a relationship but the spark has gone we don't have sex anymore and I am seeing other men but I don't want to hurt my other half like this
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reader, agony_uncle_r +, writes (4 March 2007):
you dont want to hurt him?sorry but did you have that thought befor youd betrayed him or after youd slept around?if you truely have any respect for your bf, finish with him and be honest as to why your ending it. that way he knows all he has to do is move on to someone whos more worthy of his trust and respect rather than thinking he did wrong.the simple answer to a poor relationship is to work at it, talk it through and see if you can work at it. opening your body up and betraying him is just a cowards way out.
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reader, Whisper +, writes (4 March 2007):
 If you dont want to hurt him, either let him go or sort it out. You cant keep on like this, you need to choose what you really want. Sex isnt everyting, if he loves and respects you that could count for a whole lot more.....think about how you would feel in his position, not having a clue, he thinks that he is making you happy, you need to talk and let him know whats going wrong in your relationship before its to late, and if you love him truly, its never to late xxx good luck xxx
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reader, AskEve +, writes (3 March 2007):
 You're going to hurt him MORE if he finds out you're being unfaithful to him. Do the right thing by him and tell him that although you really like him, you feel it's not working out between both of you and would prefer to remain friends. At least this way you're being honest with him and he'll respect you much more!
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 March 2007): Well there's no way where you can tell your boyfriend about these other men without hurting him. You are only 19 so break up with this guy (unless you want to work on this relationship) and move on. Remember this is your choice whether you want to sort out the issue of your lack of sex life or whether you want to move onto other men.
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