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*andycane1234
writes:Does anybody ever think someone would of been perfect for you if they just hadn't done that one thing you can't forgive? I wanted to marry my ex-boyfriend but he damaged my pride and made me feel unattractive. He didn't do it on purpose, buf it cuts like a knife. What was the one thing for you?
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 June 2012): I am in agreement with what you have been told on here. Whatever you think, he was not right for you.
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reader, Candycane1234 +, writes (30 June 2012):
Candycane1234 is verified as being by the original poster of the question He used pornography, i'm thinking he did it without me knowing. He didn't feel disloyal I have no idea why. He wanted carry on using it, damaging my pride.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 June 2012): I also fall into a similar category as one of your replies. I too fell victim to a serial cyber cheat. You may believe someone is so right for you, but when someone hurts you and slowly takes away your self esteem. then they are anything but.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 June 2012): My "perfect" man - a friend for many years, then my boyfriend - the one person I KNEW would never cheat on me - cheated on me... twice... and lied to me... I found out when she emailed me about it. I'm still trying to work out whether it's possible to put the pieces back together and that was many months ago. It's hard, I sympathise.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 June 2012): If he did something you cannot forgive then you are hardly what could be classed as perfect partners.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 June 2012): i also wanted to marry my ex. just like you, i was made to feel unattractive, and he also damaged my pride by keep going on date and adult chat sites. he did not do the one thing, he kept on doing it and kept lying. even though everything else about him was good, it does not mean they are a perfect partner. if they was, you would not have broke up. chin up x.
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reader, person12345  +, writes (29 June 2012):
 There's no way we can really comment if you don't tell us what happened.
But everyone has their dealbreakers, and it it doesn't matter how great everything else is, a dealbreaker is a dealbreaker end of story.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 June 2012): Yes, my husband decided to side with someone against me. I could never forgive him for putting this other persons feelings above mine. This caused me so much upset that I have discussed the topic with many many people who all have things that they cannot forget or forgive. This kind of thing is far more popular than you would imagine.
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (29 June 2012):
 The one thing for me is cheating/lying.
If you can't be trusted then I can't be with you.
Doing something that hurts my feelings is for me a forgivable act for the most part.
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