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writes:The same boy that said f**k ya is now speaking to me. we were on msn last night talkin n we arranged to meet up 2 have sex. we said we'ed both come online today to sort out times etc. but e hasnt come online and i texted him but have got no response. last night he seemed quiet into it but i wasnt sure if e was windining me up but as the conversaiton progressed it seemed less and less like what i thought. we planned most things nd just needed a time but he hasnt made contact...whats going on? Help! im quite upset and hurt but i want to know what might be going on mostly. Please help!
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 September 2006): I remember you too.
Why on earth are you arranging to meet up to have sex with a guy who clearly doesn't care about you at all? I think you're making a big mistake if you choose to go through with this, and if you do, no doubt we'll be hearing more from you in the future. You felt hurt when he said "f**k ya"; you're going to feel MUCH worse when you sleep with him and only then realise he wants nothing more than your body.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 September 2006): KatzKitten, I remember your posting from a few months back. This guy has treated you badly on msn, in the past. So what does his behaviours say about him? He sounds like an uncaring guy. You need to get a grip on your feelings and be strong, hun. You ask what's going on? No one knows for sure. But I can take a wild guess, though and I think you know as well. He's playing you bigtime, girl. So why are you allowing yourself to be hurt over someone, who does this sort of thing to you. Tell him to take a hike and get out there and make new friends who respect you and treat you in a decent, kind, caring way. Don't look for this guy or any guy to validate you and make you feel good about yourself. You should be doing things in your life to attaining that self worth, for yourself. When one finds their self-respect, they don't tolerate crappy behaviours like this. Do the work, dear and be strong.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 September 2006): He might just be busy but why are you going to meet up with a guy you've never met to have sex. Especially when he's being like that with you. You need to be careful. He might have something dangerous planned. Please be careful
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