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writes:I have been having an affair with a man in another city. We only see each other about once or twice a year. When I saw him this year he seemed distant and when we had sex he hurt me. When I told him it hurt he seemed to thrust even harder until he came. He apoligized afterwards but I feel a little hurt and bewildered. Should I just drop it and never see him again or tell him what I feel? Either way I don't think I can ever be with him again.
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reader, destiny9 +, writes (21 August 2009):
If I were you,I probably would not talked to him,Because when he hurt you during sex,he wasn't thinking about how you would feel about it honey.He knew that it would hurt you because.I have been through the same thing.This dude meant to hurt me,and then he boasted like it was a good thing that,he hurt me during sex.
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reader, meadowsweet  +, writes (22 July 2008):
yes you are worth much more, dont have any more to do with him
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reader, Babi2008 +, writes (22 July 2008):
 He sounds like a pig to me and i think that you should just break it off with him it seems like he dose not care about you if he keeps going after you told him that you had some pain during sex...
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 July 2008): i can understand ur feeling hurt and i think you should trust your instinct in this situation. all guys know that sometimes sex can hurt a woman and the fact that he thrust harder shows he cares more about his own satisfaction than how u feel. worse, you don't want to be with a guy who has no qualms about hurting you, who knows what else he would do? apology or not, it doesn't look good for him.
trust your gut feeling, don't call him again :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 July 2008): I think you answered your own question there at the end.
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