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female
age
30-35,
*rownbeauty
writes:My ex boyfriend and I have broken up since two months ago and right after we broke up he dated this girl then dumped her a month later. Then after a month went by he started talking to me again and wanted to know if i would like to mess around with him and of course since Iove him and he was my first I said yes but now I feel as if he is using me and everytime we talk he says sweet things like how he always wants to be in my life no matter what. He also brings up this guy I dated after him alot and ask questions like if he was better then him and if I really like the other guy , and he always trying to hook up his friends with my friends so me and him can hang out But he also ask me for sex alot to every time we speak sex pops up in the conversation. So what I want to know is if he really likes me or does he just want me for sex.
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reader, hannah76  +, writes (4 July 2011):
 You are just being used here. He gets the sex without the responsibility of a relationship.
If he was really interested, he would be dating you for proper.
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reader, CindyCares  +, writes (4 July 2011):
 Seldom things are all whiteor all black, and seldom the choice is between " "Worthless piece of meat only good for occasional rolls in the hay " and " Lovely girl I have true deep feelings for ".
Often, it's something in between,- yes, he likes you physically, and yes he does not mind hanging out with you and your friends every now and then, he may think you are nice,fun,etc. No, he does not "really " like you, otherwise he would have asked you to get back together, not just to mess around.
Annd if he is really so concerned about always keeping you in his life, what better system than having a steady relationship with you and tryng to make it work, this time ?
Words means nothing if not backed up by actions.
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