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The boy I love has to have an operation with only a 50% chance of survival, have I just said goodbye to him forever?

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Question - (25 January 2010) 3 Answers - (Newest, 25 January 2010)
A female United Kingdom age 26-29, *ptonGirl writes:

I`ve been a bit upset and worried, the boy i love has to have an operation on his head and the doctors said that there is a 50% chance he will live and a 50% chance he will die. He is beginning to say goodbye to me and he asked me to marry him. He wants a future with me but he is upset because he doesn`t think he is gonna make it.

But now i feel like he isn`t going to either and its hurting me. will he be ok or is he going to die ( have i just said goodbye to him forever.

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A female reader, Yarou Lebanon +, writes (25 January 2010):

Yarou agony auntThe doctor said 50% so that is a good chance of living

Never give up ! always focus on the positive always stay strong :)

Be there for him and before the surgery say goodbye...

If he makes it then that would be AMAZING

If he doesn't just think that he will always stay in your heart .

good luck for both of you xx

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom +, writes (25 January 2010):

There is a 50% chance he will live, so no, you haven't said goodbye for the last time. He has a good chance of living. No one can say sure whether he will live or not, but you need to be brave and focus on the chance he will survive. Because hopefully he will. Stay strong. He needs you to be strong.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (25 January 2010):

When he wakes up, and you're there for him...bloody hell, I wish I'd had my girlfriend there after my heart operation...he is absolutely going to love you :p...

However, sadly if he doesn't make it, always remember that to him, you were his whole world and he'll never ever forget you...

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