Teenage angst.

A female age 26-29, anonymous writes:

Okay so I'm 14 and I'm dating this 16 year old. We've been dating for about 2 and a half months. We were in love and I had no clue he was talking to this other girl who also had a boyfriend. I just found out a few days ago that he cheated on me with her, apparently his excuse was that she was upset and it was a spur of the moment thing. They made out. After I found this out, we had already broken up the day before hand because I had found out he was talking to her (but I hadn't known he had cheated on me with her) and he had broken up with me by saying "I just want to be friends, I've hurt you enough already." After he said that to me, I just unloaded on him and asked him why he'd do this to me and how hurt I was. After I said that, he told me he was sorry and gave me a heartfelt apology and told me he wanted me back. He even wrote a page long love note to me saying how sorry he was and how much I mean to him. That's when I found out he cheated on me. Once I found out I ignored him and just wouldn't talk to him. Right now he's giving me sincere apologies and I really do believe he feels bad and won't do it to me again and really love me. The only thing is that all my friends will get mad at me for taking him back because they saw how upset I was when I found out he was cheating on me.

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