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*erenadeStarsRocks
writes:...Okay im confused. Suddenly one of my teachers that i talked to all day almost each day is avoiding me like the plague...I know it, its obvious. He wouldnt talk to me anymore. He just nodded to me and hurry and walk away, when I called his name. He just ignored me. He never did that to me now. My suspious is telling me he found something out. I want to talk to him again and be treated normally...What should I do? Do you have any idea on why he is doing this?
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reader, SerenadeStarsRocks +, writes (22 April 2010):
SerenadeStarsRocks is verified as being by the original poster of the question Thanks for your responese guys,
He talked to me again normally now,
I just found out that he got a warning from the
higher ups about letting his students sitting ontop of the desks. And hes upset about that.
Now He's helping me getting in college and crap like that.
Now I'm happy :)
Thanks
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 April 2010): Leave him be. It's obvious eh doesn't want to talk to you anymore. Perhaps he got a warning fromt he head.
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reader, YouWish +, writes (22 April 2010):
 Serenade - put him out of your mind. You are jailbait to him, and a career killer if he crosses the line with you. In teaching, even suspicion is enough to end a career.
Wait until you graduate high school. In your case, that's two lousy little years.
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reader, Tisha-1 +, writes (22 April 2010):
 Another possibility is that he's had some bad personal news. Someone close to him may be very ill; he may have some bad medical news himself. Someone he cares for may have died. There are all kinds of personal tragedies and situations that could cause someone to withdraw. There's no way to know.
I hope you find someone else to talk to soon. Unfortunately, things don't always stay the same as they were. It's a crummy part of life, but there you have it.
Take care.
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reader, Tisha-1 +, writes (22 April 2010):
Perhaps he's been told his job is on the line. His career, his livelihood, all about to go away. He'll have to go find a new job, probably not in teaching and he's probably still paying his student loans back.
This guy is in a no-win situation with respect to dealing with students. A whiff of scandal, and he is DONE. You may not understand what that means to an adult, but losing your job, putting your career in peril, those are very very bad things to have happen.
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reader, SerenadeStarsRocks +, writes (22 April 2010):
SerenadeStarsRocks is verified as being by the original poster of the questionokay..well sorry.
I'm not totally obessed with this.
I just dont take lightly when the people I'm talking to suddenly stopped acting like himself with telling me the reason...its rude...and I dont really want any kind of relationship with him. I'm not that immature girl that hopes to marry her own teacher. I realized my chances in a relationship with him is one in a million and its impossible.I just settle for a teacher/Pupil or a Teacher/Friend and Pupil relationship.
I just want someone I could talk to openingly again.
So please dont be harsh on me
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 April 2010): I think your suspicion of him having new information is correct.
Perhaps the new information includes his boss telling him his personal conversations with you jeopardize his job and the image of the school. Or, he could be dealing with the new realization that personal relationships with students is not what he wants. There are thousands of possibilities.
Whatever it is, don't take it personally.
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