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Take him back or leave it???

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Question - (24 September 2009) 1 Answers - (Newest, 27 September 2009)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, *atePerry writes:

I am 16 and my boyfriend is 18 we have been going out for 7 months.

The story..

It all started at school he was staring at me and saying hi to me and i was like why is he being like that to me? i have not seem him around school before.. so a couple of nights after he bebo'd me and saying hey kate i would like to get to know you can i get your msn? i was abit shocked cause he wasn't really my type but i gave him my msn and it all started from there , he really liked me alot. Couple of weeks later he was to forward as in he really liked me and i wasn't to sure what i wanted i hadn't been loved like this before and wasn't used to having such a nice guy around. Eventually i started to feel the same way and i really felt something for him he sent me texts like you are so special to me you mean everything and i dont want to let you go ever your my lover and best friend i love you kate and it really made me feel so important to him and this has continued to go on till about a few weeks ago. things were ok but not as they were before ... This girl came along recently and she is seeing his best pal but she started getting extremely close to him and they say they are best friends (L) and they comment on bebo saying love you besto etc and tuesday night he came round to mine cause we needed to talk so we talked and i was so upset that he said he wanted a break i was shocked never expected this to happen cause i thought he deeply cared and i knew he did before he was amazing. That night she was texting him every second and she phoned him to see if he was ok and i was sitting right across from him taking all this i was so frustrated that he could do this.. i love him so much and i feel he doesn't feel the same anymore its so hard for me cause I'm only 16 and haven't felt like this before about someone. can anyone agree with me that it's ok to have a best friend but not that close and thinking about her more than me? i dont know what to do he wants a break for a week but do you really think i should take him back or just leave it ?

sorry it was so long i just need someone to help me with my decision thank you so much.

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A female reader, KatePerry  United Kingdom +, writes (27 September 2009):

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Where overr guys :(! heartbrokennn loves rubbish sometimes

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