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writes:Sorry if this is a bit long. Alright...first off I'm in college now. But back in high school, I met this girl who always gave me a feeling that she like(d) me. During my second year of high school my family came across some wealth and I transferred to a private school. From then on I did not talk or meet that girl until near the end of my senior year in high school.One day, she showed up at my school and we hung out for a little while. (Like she asked me online if she could meet me and I said sure.) From that, we began chatting online semi-regularly even though we ended up attending different colleges but we would hang out during breaks.More recently, she said I'm a close friend and began telling me all her boy problems. Truth be told, I did not make much friends after transferring to the private high school and seeing how she made such a effort to stay being my friend has made me develop feelings for her. So I'm really stuck between telling her how I really feel or just playing it safe and just be her close friend.Suggestions or concerns? At this point, I would be totally be willing to do a long distance relationship with her but I am not sure if she is still interested in me.
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (29 October 2010):
 I think in this case you should tell her how you feel you have nothing to lose and a lot to gain, worst case senario would be she doesnt feel the same and in this case tell her that is ok and you would still like to remain friends with her. Go for it life is to short to be wondering what could have been. Goodluck.
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