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writes:iv been dating this guy for a month now.we havnt had sex yet because i told him i want to take things slowly.and just a few days ago i found out that he had sex with 9 girls and his only 21.that dosnt seem right to me.and confused if i should stay with him or not.he is nice and caring but its just the fact that he did 9 girls bothers me...should i leave him? and how long in a realtionship is good enough to have sex? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 October 2010): Your gut feeling is saying something to you. Either you will decide to listen to it or you won't.
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reader, carra  +, writes (29 October 2010):
 If he had 9 - good for him - as long as they were not in a short timespan from one another. That means he is not consistent and just looking for a shagg.Think of your body as a temple. Do you think he has what it takes to go in? Does he respect you, cherish you, listen when you talk, make suggestions and so on?When you feel like you have a best friend and a bf in the same person, it's good to take it to the next step and see what comes out. You'll have tons of fun if you just wait.
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reader, DaFoz +, writes (29 October 2010):
It depends on what your true feelings are for each other. Is he going to dump you after you've had sex with him and you will be just number 10 to him while you're broken hearted?
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 October 2010): The number of women he slep with in his past wouldn't be an issue for me..however..what would be th issue for me would be how many women was he sleeping with while sleeping with me.
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