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writes:okay so 2 days ago, my crush sent me a message and a “poke” on facebook so i sent him back a message and he still hasn’t replied…but i went on his page just now and it said that he commented on someone’s video in his recent activity and then i went back to his page 2 minutes later then he removed it from his recent activity, and yesterday he did the same thing…he added this girl on facebook yesterday and it was in his recent activity then i go back to his page and he removed it. I’m just anxious because my internet is going to get disconnected really soon so i just wanted a chance to get to talk to him, i mean i was shocked because he never did that before, i’m usually the one who says something to him first and i guess because the last time we spoke was when i went up to him to tell him he made my night at prom when we danced together.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 July 2009): You're over-analyzing. It's not as though you are in a relationship with him, you have a crush on him. He's not deleting posts to avoid something with you since he has nothing to hide from you, like another girl. I edit my feeds for one reason or another and it pretty much never has to do with hiding something from boys who might like me or something, it's usually totally innocent. As for the message, don't contact him again. The ball is in his court. He will respond when and if he is ready. He can just as easily ignore a second or third message and might think you are clingy. It's entirely possible he likes this other girl instead of you, and you will have to accept it. It's also entirely possible the girl is his friend and he's just being friendly. It's also possible that he likes you and is waiting a bit to respond. I do that with guys I'm interested in to not seem over-eager or needy. Either way, you need to stop facebook stalking him and go out and do things. Watching him constantly will drive you nuts, make you paranoid, and accomplish nothing. Hang out with your friends, take up a hobby, even just go watch some TV. Just get off the computer!
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reader, Starlights  +, writes (24 July 2009):
 why dont you send him another message and say you havent heard back from him, and make a joke from the situation?hopefully he will reply before the net disconnects and if he doesnt take the hint and leave him be.good luck
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