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I'm 22, a mother of two children and a soon to be wife. i may only be young but i have had a few bad experiences and i have been in almost every situation thinkable, so why not ask me something, i'm sure i can give you a decent bit of advice.

Still have feelings for my ex... Was it best that we remained friends?

Q.   I was with my ex boyfriend on and off for over a year and i fell in love with him. We split up and i tried to move on, still having feelings for him. I'm currently in a relationship with 1 of his best mates but i stil miss my ex and think about him ...

A.   28 September 2007: from my perspective, going out with your love's best friend is one of the worst things to do. you are with someone you dont love or pehaps even like just to see your ex. dont you think you deserve to be happy? if you do then break all ties with your ... (read in full...)

What can I do to help her be more comfortable when fooling around?

Q.   My girlfriend and I are in a distance relationship, about 2.5 hours between us, both in college, been going out for almost 6 months now. We both think sex or even just giving each other an orgasm is going too far before marriage but we still fool ...

A.   28 September 2007: The bast way to over come this is with a pen and paper. i felt the same way with my partner. i felt really stupid doing certain stuff, mainly because i thought i would do it wrong. Each of you have a piece of paper and write down 5 questions like ... (read in full...)

She seems cold, distant and unaffectionate. Where's this come from?

Q.   Recently, my girlfriend started behaving really cold, distant and unaffectionate. She says I haven't done anything wrong, she just gets this way when she's about due on. I know she can "run cold" when this happens, but I've never experienced her so ...

A.   28 September 2007: your girlfriend sounds like me! i dont wanna be near anyone when i am due on or infact on. my partner is understanding so i am lucky. you just need to give her a couple of day, let her know that you are there when she needs you and give her plenty ... (read in full...)

Do you think my boyfriend purposely planned his vacation, knowing that I wouldn't be able to go?

Q.   Hey guys n gals I need your views, please!!! I'm currently 5 months pregnant and overheard my boyfriend and his mates talking the other night to find out that they are all off to Amsterdam in November when i'll be 7 months pregnant! My ...

A.   28 September 2007: something similar happened to me. my fella went to prague when i was 8 months pregnant. i called him every night just to make sure he was ok and enjoying himself. i was feeling depressed. i thought that he prefered to be there instead of with me and ... (read in full...)

My long distance bf has totally changed and become vicious - how can I tell if he loves me?

Q.   im in a longdistance relationship for 19 months now. my bf completely changed. dnt know if he still loves me. he dnt even take pics of us ,he dnt seem very sad of going away. al he want is being vicous. how can i know if he loves me? ...

A.   28 September 2007: The answer is simple, ask him. If the worst comes to the worst at least you know where you stand, and move on. I know you love him and i know what you are going through is hard but you owe it to yourself to know, you deserve better than being ... (read in full...)

We have plans to move, but I have my doubts b/c of past troubles in our relationship! Should I still go?

Q.   hey i was just asking for help because me and this boy have been going out for a little over 11 months and we planned on moving to Virginia to live there with his brother. But now i have my doubts about going i think i am scared but in away i want ...

A.   28 September 2007: If i was you, i'd voice your concearns with this fella. See what he has to say, you may be fretting about nothing. If you dont want to go down that road then just listen to your head and not your heart, this is a big move for you and you need time ... (read in full...)

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