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Still bleeding after 1st time sex 8 days ago. Is something wrong?

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Question - (29 September 2010) 3 Answers - (Newest, 29 September 2010)
A female United Kingdom age 26-29, anonymous writes:

Dear Cupid

This is really embarrasing, basically i had sex with this guy who had a very large penis and it did hurt as it was my first time, but you see i have been bleeding for longer then 8 days i think. I thought it was my period that started but its lasted longer then it ever has and also the same amount of blood each day. Its not alot of blood (one tea spoon) but its not getting less. I'm really scared something went wrong, what can go wrong? will i ever stop bleeding? Im too scared to go to the doctors , but is what i've just said very abnormal?

Thankyou

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A female reader, DenimandLace44 United States +, writes (29 September 2010):

DenimandLace44 agony auntSweetie this is definitely NOT normal. You need to see a doctor as soon as possible. You could have torn something inside. The other aunts are absolutely correct.

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A female reader, Honeypie United States + , writes (29 September 2010):

Honeypie agony auntYou need to talk to your mom and make an appointment with your doctor or a gynecologist. It is not normal to bleed for 8 days after having had sex.

This may also be the PERFECT time to discuss birth-control with your mom and doctor.

If you are old enough for sex, you should be old enough to talk to your mom and doctor about this. Yes, it may be embarrassing, but that comes with the territory.

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A female reader, birdynumnums Canada +, writes (29 September 2010):

birdynumnums agony auntGo and tell your Mom to take you to her OB/GYN doctor as soon as possible. You should be checked out.

We aren't doctors on this site, and your Mom needs to know that you are sexually active and have a talk with you about your responsibilities and how to take care of yourself and your health now that you are.

It's important to discuss this with her because you change change the course of your future and you need some adult guidance; preferably from a parent and not total strangers on the internet, Hunnie. XXX

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