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Started out great... Now it's fizzling!!

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Question - (26 October 2010) 1 Answers - (Newest, 26 October 2010)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I started seeing this guy about 6 weeks ago, we have known each other for like a year and a half but not socially.

He was so sweet to start with, I would hang out with him at work then he'd drop me home at like 3am, he took me out, he was lovely.

He went on holiday for 2 weeks about 10 days after we got together and since he's come back he seems really closed off. He'll go days without texting me. I've only seen him 3 times since he got back (nearly 4 weeks ago).

I'm a little chubby so i'm totally insecure and paranoid, I think it started to go downhill after I slept with him.

Basically he just doesn't seem interested in seeing me yet when we do get together we get on so well and he makes me feel amazing. Do I bother riding it out or should just I end it now?

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (26 October 2010):

Been there walked that and got sucker punched by his wife. Holiday without you? Go without texting you? Closed off since he came back? Only seen him 3 times in 4 weeks? Girl you already knoiw the answer and the only reason you're here asking for advice is for a yearning of wishful thinking. Walk away. It's not worth the inevitable heartbreak. He into another woman more than you. You're young so take it from me dive in the sea there's class A fish surrounding you.

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