What else can I do to get him to notice me?
Q. I'm in need of some advice.. i have been seeing this guy around town, well, he works for the law, if u like and i had a complaint, and he and his colleague delt with it, this was about 8 months ago. however, since then i have seen him around town, ...
A. 23 September 2009: Change your hair style, dress well, spray yourself with a beautiful scent, say hi and strike up conversation to show you are a confident woman.
For months, I saw my ex boyfriend around and all we did was smile at each other, then one day, I just... (read in full...)
Why does he need to text other women?
Q. I have been married to my Hubby for 5 years, I met him when he was married but he left his wife, before the relationship became sexual.. He is everything a women could want and we have the best time and life together, we have now Bern blessed with a ...
A. 23 September 2009: He probably just like's the attention and the naughty thrill of getting to know other women. But it sounds like he's just waiting until one of the girls he texts wants to cheat with him. Sometimes, you have to lose something to understand how to ... (read in full...)
Why are men so hard to understand!!!!
Q. I've been seeing this boy for around 2 months. I'm 17, he's 22 and he has a 4 year old son. He's happy with how things are between us and doesn't want to change it while I can't stand waiting for something that might not even happen! Because of this ...
A. 20 September 2009: I think you need to move on. He's 22 and he's a father so not only is he older than you but he's also mature for his age. Are you really ready for the 'hassle' in the future? I doubt it. He's probably got too much going on in his life to really have ... (read in full...)
He won't dump his ex or "put a ring on it", should I move out?
Q. Last year I found out he had been emailing his ex the whole 2 years we had been together. I wouldn't have minded if not for the fact that he made me sever ties with all ex's and male friends from my past. He had been accusing me for months of ...
A. 20 September 2009: You can't love without trust and if you don't trust him maybe your instincts are telling you something.
Confront him, don't be aggressive or argumentative, just be calm and ask him if he's still has feelings for his ex.
I think you are right to... (read in full...)
How do I tell all five lads, that they may or may not be the father to my baby?
Q. What do I do? I know it sounds bad, so please don't judge me, or leave nasty comments! Well 8 and a half months ago I slept with 5 lads in a period of two weeks, and now im due a little boy any time soon, but all the lads know im pregnant an...
A. 20 September 2009: Well, I think it's amazing that all five of the boys want to support you, when there are plenty of girls who have had to go through pregnancy, childbirth and motherhood completely alone. You have to tell them all, do it now while you are pregnant ... (read in full...)
He's married, threw me out like garbage but I miss him!
Q. Dear Cupid, My boyfriend left me in February, but until now I'm still in love with him. I cannot concentrate with my job anymore. I'm obsess and the problem is he is married too. Please anyone can give advise how to move on. He throw me l...
A. 14 April 2009: I know people will condemn you for having an affair with a married man but heartbreak is hard for anybody who goes through it. Time heals all wounds and you just need to be alone for a while and one day you'll be ready to move on.... (read in full...)
Is he just showing off? Or am I being played?
Q. Ive just got back together a few weeks ago with my ex boyfriend who i was broken up with for a year. He had to go into rehab for drinking and since October he was totally sober . However alot of his friends are drinkers and he's started doing it ...
A. 14 April 2009: I think he's just a show-off, he's obviously one of those alcoholics who have a different personality when they're drunk. He needs rehab and you need a man who will treat you better.... (read in full...)
Some questions for you to answser about a friend I'd like to be more than a friend!
Q. I think I love this girl. She's a close friend. I'm not sure if I should tell her how I feel since her boyfriend just broke up with her after almost two years. The thing is, her ex boyfriend is one of my best friends too. I haven't talked to him ...
A. 14 April 2009: I think you should wait a while before telling her, if she knows you like her, she could use you as a rebound guy and use you to make her ex boyfriend jealous. Wait until you know she is 100% over him and then tell him you really like her, ask him ... (read in full...)
Was I too late and is he considering taking his ex back?
Q. Heya, ok so I've posted this a few times but have never gotten any answers to my updates, my question's named: - I turned him down when he asked me out, now I regret it. Is it too late? - I can't work out if this girl is his older sister or ...
A. 14 April 2009: That sucks but I think you just need to wait and see how things with his ex develop because he may think you're just saying you like him now that you know his ex is still in love with him. Don't tell him how you feel, knowing that two girls like him ... (read in full...)
I'm pushing my boyfriend away when I really need to be closer to him
Q. hi, i have a problem. i'm pushing my boyfriend away and i need him close to me. i've had a lot of trust issues however my boyfriend is great and gives me no reason not to trust him. how can i trust him more? how do i bring him closer? i'm so scared ...
A. 14 April 2009: Once you've been hurt or heartbroken it can be really difficult to learn to trust anyone again. I think you need to explain to your boyfriend why you feel so insecure, confiding in him is a good way to bring him closer.... (read in full...)
Will I always be scared about having sex? Or will I outgrow this?
Q. I am an 18 year old female, still a virgin, but I'm scared to have sex. I was sexually harassed for 3 years by my father and I'm scared that I wont ever be able to trust a guy enough to have sex with them. Am I going to out grow this or am I going ...
A. 14 April 2009: That's so sad and it is completely understandable why you feel that way. I think you need to speak to someone and definitely get counselling, if you aren't getting counselling already. I think when you meet the right guy and you fall in love and you ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend gets insecure when she's away from me
Q. Hi! I'm 18 years old and I have a girlfriend who I totally love and adore. We haven't been together for long, a few months, but I still find her great. Only problem, she is a bit insecure. She can take compliments, but questions me on them ...
A. 14 April 2009: Many girls are insecure, that's not unusual, but I think there is a difference between being insecure and being needy. Your girlfriend sounds needy.
If I were you I would question why she texted you while on holiday with messages saying she didn... (read in full...)
I'm married so why do I desire other women?
Q. why do i desire other women even though im married? when i see a women i can't help but look up and down at her and then i think of her like crazy! Why do I do this?...
A. 14 April 2009: You're human and you can't help it if you find other women attractive, as long as you don't cheat on your wife then it's OK to look but don't touch!... (read in full...)
I'm 13 and my guy wants to have sex
Q. Soo me and my boyfriend have been dating for 2 years. Im 13 if that matters. I've given him blowjobs and hand jobs and I've let him finger me, eat me out, fist me, stick things into my butt and penetrate me in my butt. But now he wants to have sex...
A. 27 December 2008: I really feel for you, regardless of how mature you think you think you are, you will look back on your life and completely regret the choices you have made. You are having under age sexual experiences. That is rape and child abuse. You have been ... (read in full...)
Should he attend his ex fiance's wedding?
Q. My boyfriend was invited to his ex-fiance's wedding should he attend? We both know she has feelings for him still....
A. 7 December 2008: No way! She could use the wedding to make him regret not being with her.... (read in full...)
I miss my baby with all my heart. I shaped up and changed for her. Please - does anyone know how I can win her back?
Q. On the last day of high school in may of 05, some random girl i didnt know came up to me and told me her friend liked me. That night i got to meet the girl in person - and boy was i scared. Since then we have been together until the 23rd of ...
A. 5 October 2008: I was touched by what you said and it obvious that love has changed you but your ex-girlfriend may think you've changed too late. Write her a letter expressing how you are sorry, that you understand where you went wrong and how you are willing to ... (read in full...)
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