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writes:So my girlfriend and I have an excellent relationship and are very open with each other. We are both 19 and have been together since we were 15. We were talking a few weeks ago and she told me that the idea of letting guys lose their virginity to her has always turned her on a lot. It's sort of like a fetish for her. I'm totally okay with that. In fact, the thing is... I'm very turned on by that too. I love the idea of us letting a virgin guy have his first time with her. So it turns us both on very much, and we have been talking it over for the past few weeks since she told me about it, and we have decided that we would probably like to try this. We both love the idea. Should we really go through with this? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 April 2011): Just imagine if it was a male saying he has a fetish for taking girls' virginities.
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reader, Honeypie + ♥, writes (21 April 2011):
 I agree with Welsh Uncle Dave. Totally bonkers!
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reader, Welsh Uncle Dave  +, writes (21 April 2011):
It sounds absolutely bonkers. Your girlfirend isn't a piece of meat and this will attract all sorts, and could lead to something you both regret.Next, you'll be charging people for the privilege - effectively prostituting her.You say you're turned on by the thought, but what about when you actually see this happen - someone else having sex with your girlfriend - will you still be turned on.It's your lives but don't cheapen yourselves.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 April 2011): I personally wouldn'tAno you both think thats want you want but really are you ok with the though of your girlfriend sleeping with some other guy???Havnt you thought that after it it might actually get to you n might ruin your relationship with herAre you really willing to risk all of that for a fettish
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 April 2011): i'm not the type that would be okay with watching someone else be with my girl. nor would i be the type to be okay with my girl wanting to be with another guy. but hey man, more power to you if you're both fine with it and emotionally capable of handling it.just beware. there are some potentially really bad consequences that could come from this. what if she falls for another guy? women often times don't just have emotionless sex. keep that in mind. or if you think you can handle it, but then realize you can't after it's too late, and then start to look at her differently. or what if she thinks she will like it but winds up hating it, and blames you for allowing her to do it, etc. there's just so many variables that could go horribly wrong. but that's just me.if you don't think any of those things are possible, go for it! hope you enjoy it dude!
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