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writes: I don't know if I should wait for my crush to breakup with his girlfriend that he's having issues with or if I should tell him that I like him now. I know he'll just reject me again because he's in a relationship but waiting for them to split is making me so depressed I feel like I'll never get a chance. He doesn't listen to our friend's advice as to why they should split but im still hoping that he does it.I want to be with him so badly...he has rejected me beforeand said that I should've mentioned it sooner. Basically he had a girlfriend so it was bad timing. Now that he's going out with this girl I try to pretend like I'm over him but im not. Oh agony aunts, should I tell him or wait for something to happen?
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 October 2013): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionNo it isn't my bottom. xD
Yeah I understand what you're saying. It's just really hard to get over him. He's the only guy I really liked.. Thanks for all your help guys. :
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 October 2013): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you. You told me the answer I was dreading. He thinks im over him so he doesn't know that im still into him. Its really hard to swallow that he probably isn't going to pursue me but I want to try again. I know it's rare but there have been people who've gotten together after being rejected before. In my case he told me that it was the wrong timing so im afraid of doing it at the wrong moment again but it's taking seemingly ages for them to break up. I just want to tell him how I feel and I know im going to be distraught if he doesn't reciprocate... thanks for your help even though I dont want to admit defeat you're most likely right about how this is going to turn out.. :/
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reader, Aunty Babbit  +, writes (1 October 2013):
 If you've told him before then he already knows.
If I'm reading your letter right he had a girlfriend, you admitted you had feelings for him and he said you should've told him sooner because he has a girlfriend.
He has now split with her and now has a new girlfriend who he has issues with.
If this is correct then I'm sorry but he's clearly not interested in you in "that" way.
If he was when he split up with his previous girlfriend he would have pursued you, but he didn't, he started a new relationship with someone else.
I know it hurts to be in love with someone and not have them return those feelings but there's nothing you can do.
You can either put some distance between you to try to get over him or keep hurting.
He may have issues with his girlfriend but only he can decide what he wants to do and no one should be pressurised into splitting up with a partner because someone else thinks they should.
Tell him again if you must but I don't think the outcome will improve in your favour.
I hope this helps AB x
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reader, Ryzenguard98 +, writes (1 October 2013):
 U dont want to be the rebound. Move on. Hes rejected you once and you dont need to be with him.
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