A boy from school said it's embarassing to be virgin. I do not agree. What do you think?
Q. a boy said at school in a pshe lesson that "if you are 14 and still a virgin its embarresing" although over half tutor are virgins.i dont think thats embarresing at all what do you think? its getting to me. ...
A. 22 November 2007: I'm 16 and I'm proud to tell people that I'm a virgin, you lose it when you have met the right person or are ready in yourself to lose it, not because everyone else is or you're getting older and it gets embarrassing. Virginity is a personal thing ... (read in full...)
Why can't he invite me too when he goes out with his friends? Am I being unfair?
Q. hiy, i have been with my boyfriend for 1 year now and he has started going out with his friends in the evening once in a while, it annoys me because i dont ever go out with any friends of mine, and he didnt go out for the first 7-8 months .. it bot...
A. 22 November 2007: he might need some chill out time with his mates because i bet there r things they talk about and chat about tht ud be like ewwww to plus ya dnt need to be with him all the time and he only goes out now and then you go out with ur mates... (read in full...)
Although I snog others in clubs I don't really want to. Am I doing this to get back at my gay friend?
Q. Dear Cupid Ok I've started seeing this guy for about 2 months. We met in a gay club which is a very flirty scene. He is 26 and I'm 33. This guy is a type I would not usually go for - gets really drunk/dances without his shirt on/snogs lots of...
A. 25 August 2007: i dont think so i think ya should "MOVE ON" and find someone that does not want to snog others and only wants to snog YOU ... (read in full...)
Even though he has a relationship with my children he will not let me meet his daughter!
Q. I have been dating a man for 2 years even though he has a relationship with my children he will not let me meet his daughter, also he can be so loving and then all of a sudden he starts to ignore me, if I finish with him he wants me back. I do not ...
A. 25 August 2007: there is something weird about that why wont he let you see his daughter demand to see her (cuz who says he actually has one)... (read in full...)
There is an attraction between myself and my ex's son.
Q. I split up with my boyfriend(who is over 12 yrs older than me) almost a yr ago now, but have remained friends with his family. There is no hard feelings between us, in fact we speak when we see each other.I know i definitely don't want him back, and ...
A. 25 August 2007: well if you love i think you should get with him and dont care about wat other ppl say but if your feelings isnt love then leave it you dont need the stress... (read in full...)
Guys seem to like my friend better than me and it is putting a strain on us
Q. I have a friend who is like my twin. i really like it because we have so much fun, but the problem is she always seems to have men falling at her feet. We look the same and act the same. I was going out with a lad that was really sweet and funny and ...
A. 25 August 2007: well try meetin lads without her bein there to begin with... (read in full...)
Should i tell my cousin how i feel about him?
Q. hi (: ok well i think this is a bit uncommon and weird, but i have a crush on my cousin. the problem is he's 20 years old, but he's all i think about and i broke up with my boyfriend because of him. i am planning on telling how i feel about him, bec...
A. 25 August 2007: you cant really have a real relationship this called insest hello and say you did if you had kids they will be disabled... (read in full...)
I'm plannin to lose my virginity, will i bleed?
Q. I am 18 and still a virgin because i never had intercourse. I have been fingered alot in the past making out but no sex. I am preparing to have sex with my boyfriend soon and wonder if i still have my hymen and will i bleed. Just want to know....
A. 25 August 2007: well it depends cuz if you havent popped ya cherry yet then you might bleed... (read in full...)
My ex just got engaged, but then slept with me!
Q. I was in a relationship with someone for a couple of years. We broke up but remained good friends. Out of the blue he told me that he was getting married to a girl he's known for three weeks... I found this very strange, as he is not the type of ...
A. 25 August 2007: why don't you get him on his own and speak to him about it and if he did love you more than his wife he would be doin her a favor by leaving her for you because then she can find someone who she realy does love and if he loves you then he can be ... (read in full...)
He wants to cheat on his girlfriend with me
Q. basically, ive know this guy for as long as i can remember, and he is 4 years older. he has a g.f but he always says how she moans n stuff. recently he has been textin me askin me to meet him, and i have fallen for him. i am meant to be meeting him ...
A. 25 August 2007: well i think u should not let him cheat on his girlfriend with you cuz if he can do it to her he could easerly do it to you if he don't like this girl has much has you why don't you tell him to break up woth her then he could go out with you besides ... (read in full...)
Could he go to jail for getting me pregnant?
Q. I am 15 almost 16 and I'm pregnant but will be 16 before the babies born and my boyfriend is 21 will he go to jail even though I'll be 16 before the babies born? And say I didnt put his name on the birth certificate and later on I do, can they still ...
A. 19 August 2007: well there could still be a chance he goes to jail he even could get dne for rape yano and even if ya put his name on little later they will find out frm wen you had the baby and trace it back 9 months but i say if you love him and he loves you and ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend wants to have a baby with me but I'm only 15!
Q. Hi, I am 15 and my boyfriend is 19 and he wants to have a baby with me, I also want one but I feel that I am too young. please help me. ...
A. 16 August 2007: omg you have plenty of time to have a baby you should live first and you can't do that with a baby besides you're way too young and he might get done for rape even though he aint please don't let him pressure you into having a baby, live first xxxx... (read in full...)
My girlfriend has a drink problem!
Q. Hi, My girlfriend whom I've been dating for 7 months now has a drinking problem. Everytime she drinks, I will feel obligated to drink because I can deal with the drunken issues so much better when I am a little buzzed myself. Just recently, we had ...
A. 16 August 2007: you should think of wats best for you and do tht she can only stop drinking if she wants it for herself no one can force her to stop ppl just have to be there to support her you may think tht "wat does she no" but trust me i no quite a bit beleive ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend is an alcoholic who never has time for me
Q. my girlfriend is an alcholic and says she loves me and wants to spend time with me but always uninvites me to events she's asked me to go with her , won't let me come with her to do things an will only spend time with me for maybe 3hours per week i ...
A. 16 August 2007: she NEEDS to stop drinking and she NEEDS to think about wat she wants and btw you should make ur self happy if she has no time for you y shoud you have tiome for her get someone tht cares about and tht has time for you also hu dnt have a drink ... (read in full...)
Are we too young to be engaged?
Q. Im 16 my boyfriend is 17 we have been together a while now and are very much in love. We are considering moving in together at the start of next year. We were talking last night and he said next time we go shopping he wants me to point out some ...
A. 16 August 2007: hey if ur in love thn y not but just cuz you get ingaged doesnt me you have to rush into marriage like someone i no as been ingaged like 4 years cuz they felt commited to each other and they said they wanted to get on wid there lifes and like have ... (read in full...)
The guy i am seeing has a pregnant girlfriend, what should i do?
Q. I've been seeing a lad that I've really started to like but he also has a girlfriend but the real problem is she's pregnant now but I started seeing him before we knew this but by that time I really really liked him, it all got too much for me the ...
A. 13 August 2007: if you liked him that much and he did not love her and love you maybe he should let that poor women get on wid her life and let her find someone that loves her he needs to decide hu he wants ya cant keep this up bbz... (read in full...)
How do I handle my boyfriend's baby? Is the relationship worth going through this?
Q. My boyfriend who I have been dating for four months and who I love has two young kids. The youngest is 8 month old. It is very hard for me to accept the baby for some reason. How do I handle being in this situation? And how do I know he is truly ...
A. 7 August 2007: if you love your boyfriend you gotta accept the babies as they will always come first n so will you but the only thing is and dnt take me wrong but it like if you make him chose it should be the kids tht come first so my advice is just learn to get ... (read in full...)
Not sure my partner is over his ex... I sometimes feel as if he doesn't even like me!
Q. I'm 22 currently dating a man who has only had one relationship. He was with her for 5-6 years and they have a child together. So they have to stay in contact. I don't think he is over her. He never says "i love you" to me unless i say it first. I ...
A. 7 August 2007: "doesn't really think about me in his future" he must not love you has much as the other gal otherwise you would be in his future no offense but by tht comment he sounds like a jerk you could do better... (read in full...)
Am I immature or is he being dumb?
Q. Help me here guys. OF course I'm 13 and so is my boyfrined. He thinks I'm inmature just beacseI don't want to have sex and becasue I watch cartoon network and disney channel everyday.Am I really inmature or is he just being dumb?...
A. 6 August 2007: he is totally DUMB ello your still young theres no need to rush into sex and i no ppl tht r 16/17 tht watch cartoon network ect it not immature and you have dne the right thing to sayin no you should never do stuff ya dnt want to ... (read in full...)
I feel embarrassed because of my virginity
Q. I use to go out with a guy a long time ago for nearly a year. we broke up and then he went out with my best friend - which hurt me alot. Eventually they also broke up. By no means is he a great catch or anything but he continues to get girlfriend ...
A. 6 August 2007: dont be embarressed by your virginity, be proud on the fact tht you are waiting fr the right guy and he hasnt come along yet, you dnt want to just waste it on n e one it needs to be special and hu cares if ppl find out hold ya head up high and ... (read in full...)
My husband-to-be has just told me that he may have another child with another woman on the way!
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together for 9 months and we are suppose to get married next year. His ex-wife called me and told me that he has another child with someone else. I asked him about it and he said he's not sure if its his and that he's ...
A. 6 August 2007: omg hunny of course you have been betrayed men always say "i was waiting for the right time to tell you" there is no "right time" you diserve to no and he should of told you earlier... (read in full...)
I want a divorce but my husband scared me by telling me how angry God will be
Q. I asked my husband for a divorce and he started spewing out a bunch biblical stuff at me, telling me God was going to punish me and my whole life will be cursed after this. He really freaked me out. I don't want to anger God by filing for divorce ...
A. 4 August 2007: god will not be angry because he would feel angry if you stayed in a marrige wich you did not like and you was unhappy god would love it if you was happy and found someone tht does make you happy
ur husband i just tryin to make you stay in the m... (read in full...)
Should I get my hair done the way I want or listen to my mum?
Q. hi there i am 14 years old and i really want to cut my hair short like how posh spice had it at the end of 2oo6 i asked my mom last night and she said it would not suite me but i think it will she also said that she doesnt trust the hairdresser and ...
A. 4 August 2007: well at the end of the day it ur hair and body so it u hu will have the rgrets if it dnt look good besides hair grows back so it will opnly be for a short time so i say do it watever way you think it will look good
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She's my only sexual partner, so I stopped using condoms, so will be both be safe still?
Q. I've been seeing this girl since we were both 11. We started having sex when we were both 13, we have also used condoms, for both vaginal and anal, but recently i have not been able 2 cum using condoms, even the very thin ones. so we have decided ...
A. 4 August 2007: i think u should be really carefull though not using one cuz even though she on the pill it's not always 100% sure she wont get pregnant... (read in full...)
She made fun of my cousin and I felt it was bang out of order.
Q. A few days ago whilst out with friends [one of which is my cousin]. My girlfriend embarrassed me by making fun about my youngest cousin. As we were discussing family she brought up my youngest cousin and started dissing him by calling him a 't**t' ...
A. 4 August 2007: u need to stand for you and ur family and just get her on her own and talk to her about it and if she strops let her couse i think family come first but tht just my opinion so do wat you think right really... (read in full...)
How and where can my mom find someone new?
Q. I am very close to my family and love my mum even though she drives me crazy sometimes. She has just come out of a divorce with my dad. I am coping ok but they are not getting along at all and are always bitching about eachother to me. I want...
A. 4 August 2007: it just takes time u cant rush into gettin someone for her u have to let her do it for herself in time she will find him you just have to be pacient... (read in full...)
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