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Should I tell my best friend or let HIM tell her?

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Question - (14 November 2008) 4 Answers - (Newest, 14 November 2008)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I'm falling for my best mate's boyfriend but I don't know how too tell her. I told him and he said that he is mad about me! and we got together but he still hasn't dumped my best mate, he said he is waiting for a right time but we've been together for about over 5 weeks now and he keeps texting and calling me saying he loves me and is going to dump her soon but he still hasn't!!

please help me x

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A reader, anonymous, writes (14 November 2008):

god..no offence but u sound like a horrible friend

my best friend ran off with my boyfriend too and it hurts now even thinking about what she done to me

DO not do this to her..please. its the worst possible thing and shel never forgive you deep down!

theres a million other guys out there, leave hers alone!

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A female reader, helpjayne United Kingdom +, writes (14 November 2008):

helpjayne agony aunttell him straight he has to tell her or you will, i think it would be best if you both told her at the same time but it was their relationship and if she's not that much of a friend to you let them get on with it, if she's like your bestest friend in the world you have to go upto her and tell her otherwise you'l all together loose the friendship you and her share perhaps if you go to her you will get a little bit more respect for being honest

goodluck

x

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (14 November 2008):

Maybe he wants to keep both of you.

But what kind of a best friend are you to steal your friend's boyfriend?

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A female reader, KSnider United States +, writes (14 November 2008):

I think you should definately tell your friend. You dont want to wait for him to do it because if your friend is important to you he/she deserves the truth. Whereas the guy how do you know he isnt still sleeping with her and what not. And the thing I would seriuosly consider if he cheated on her with you who is to say he will not do the say with you.

I hope this helps

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