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36-40,
*ima
writes:my boyfriend of two years has been withdrawn from the university. i'm presently serving at an oil company. my parents are trying to reject him for his problem. we want to get married but i'm scared he can't take care of me or i'll become a liability to him. should i leave him and find another?
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reader, mima +, writes (9 June 2008):
mima is verified as being by the original poster of the question thanks ya'll. i'd stick to that.looking out for more help from you.
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reader, rcn  +, writes (5 June 2008):
 What other issues are you experiencing? What I see is two young people who are at the start of their adult life. I'm 36 years old. Had my first child at 19, I now have 4 children. Most of my adult life thus far, I had no idea what I really wanted to do, but know I wanted a life that empowered positive changes in others.
This year I graduated from college. I'm going to be working with children in some of the most horrific child abuse situations. I am also a behavior coach, attempt to create new views causing change through government agencies.
When I was 18, I was drunk, wanting to be a rock guitar player, had long hair and drove a sports car. So in my younger days I was the boy parents warned their daughters about. lol
Have you sat down with him to find out what his plans are? That's what I would do. I wrote a bit of my history just to show that at different stages in life, or directions change as well. He may not know today, but tomorrow may wake up with purpose, and going after what he knows in his hear is the direction he needs to take.
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (5 June 2008):
 Whatever you do, don't marry him until he has solidified his future plans. You don't mention love anywhere in your post so maybe if you aren't that crazy about him you should move onto greener pastures.
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