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reader, anonymous, writes (2 April 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks guys for all the great advices!
I told my bf that I think it is far too early to stay over in his room and he agreed to wait for that day to come. Actually I did ask him "issnt it the same when we cuddle in the cinemas and cuddle at some romantic areas in public?" He said its different so I really don't know what he means...
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (1 April 2010):
 Would you dare to think that he would put the date rape drug in your drink while you are there and tomorrow , you wake up and cannot remember anything ?
You could be raped and then naked pictures of you could be found floating in the internet.
Just one month is too short to know a guy. There are syndicates which employ handsome men to con girls and sell them into prostitution.
Can that be a possibility? You need to be more care full.
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reader, lily13524  +, writes (1 April 2010):
 He totally wants sex,if his a good guy well to bad,why can`t he cuddle on the couch instead!If you`ll cuddle on a bed,this may lead to some other things like maybe sex!
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 April 2010): if you dont wanna then dont
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (1 April 2010):
Wait. He wants sex, he's just trying to lie about it.
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reader, EbonyBlossom +, writes (31 March 2010):
 You've been together a month, it's not like you're rushing into things if you're just staying over. If you trust him then go. However you sound like you don't trust him. Why is this?
Make sure you do other stuff together like watch a movie or share a pizza or something to make the most of your night and to make it clear you are not just interested in sex.
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reader, RAINORFIRE +, writes (31 March 2010):
 You obviously dont feel comfortable about this so i say go wth your intuition, if you felt good you wouldnt have to ask, your old enough to make your own decisions and do what you want to do,In inevitably you will be sleeping with this guy fornication is a sin regardless of whether you wait a month three months or six months, i say do what you want to do.
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 March 2010): I am perfectly willing to (and sometimes really want to) just cuddle a girl all night without pushing for sex. But
I seem to be in the minority of guys about this. I agree that probably at least 2/3rds of guys will at least want to try to get you interested in sex even if they say they won't beforehand.
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reader, KrissyA  +, writes (31 March 2010):
 When they say they want to only cuddle they are telling the truth... When they say it. Then you will say yes and his imagination will run wild with thots of what to do when you are in the same bed all close with the door closed! Its so not a good idea!
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 March 2010): I would say if he wants to cuddle, why can't he cuddle on the sofa or in the park and other well light areas etc. You have only been dating one month thus i wouldn't rush it as you may not know him well enough yet.
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reader, curiousalamin +, writes (31 March 2010):
nah hell no .. he want some booty lol
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reader, Laura1318 +, writes (31 March 2010):
Can you trust him?
What if he wants more and you cannot resist him because he is physically stronger and he gets more horny than expected.
His hormones can run riot and he lose control.
Don't take unnecessarily risk or you will regret it.
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