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female
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26-29,
anonymous
writes:I have a good friend (lets call her A) who is a nutjob, and I don't know what I want to do about it. I don't know if i should remain friends with her or i should end the friendship while I can. I feel like some of her craziness stems from her anxiety. She has ADD too, but my brother has that and he isn't insane. Here are some of the things she has done:-you can't trust her with the guy you like. I have exactly 7 different stories about how one of her friends told her that she liked a guy and the next day she'd be all "well truth is I went out with him for three months and I love him and he broke my heart" -shes a liar. I'll tell her something and she'll be like "oh yeah i know that i love that" and then half an hour later she'll be like "wait a minute what is it again?" if she gets into fight with someone and she's telling it to someone else then she'll manipulate the story for her benefit. She always says she's best friends with people she barely knows! -she's obsessed with my beautiful and popular older sister, as well as one of my best friend's (best friend will be B) beautiful and popular cousin. if she sees B's cousin in the hallways around school she'll yell her name and be all "omg love you!!". She went into my sisters room without permission and looked around! And she'll say stuff about both of them, like " omg, she's so gorgeous i wish was her". -she never sticks to her opinion, or has an original thought. Lets say I say "i love that band" when its just her and me. And A will agree Then lets say B comes along and B says "i hate that band", A will agree with her! This creep started stalking B and wouldn't leave her alone and at first she was like "stay away" but now she's like "get with him".-she can be too much. She'll take my phone and text my guy friend "tits for dick". I know its a joke but it was never funny. And she does it all the time. Once me and a group of friends were playing a joke on another guy friend and we were pretending to be drunk and sje kept fake throwing up in the background, ruining it. -she can actually be quite mean. She once went around to all of our friends at a party and said stuff like "oh you're so thin and pretty!". And when it got to this one girl she said "oh, and you're curvy!". She once talked about me pretty badly behind my back. It really hurt my feelings. She flipped out on my one friend over nothing and when i defended her she attacked me.-she once sniffed another girl's panties. Don't ask why. I still don't know. -she always says she's "in love" with whatever guy she likes. And when we say "you said that about the last guy", she'll say "i mean it this time". Those are only the tip of the iceberg. Everyone knows her as insane. People think im crazy because im friends with her! What should I do, end it or stay with her? Thanks. Im 15 btw, going into sophmore year of high school
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 June 2012): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for the advice. Just saying, "this creep" wasn't referring to A. There was this guy who wouldn't leave B alone. Thats Who the creep was. And for the "tits fr dick" thing, she does it almost every time we hang out. Its gotten so old. N come on man, you never prank called someone when you were in high school? I mean it may come across as immature, but we weren't actually drinking. I don't do that. Anyway, thanks.
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