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My boyfriend got another girl pregnant but when I confront him he's denying it!!!

Q.   I recently found out my boyfriend has another girlfriend that's pregnant and he told me its not what i think. I really like him, and im like falling apart without him. He called me the other day becuase he didnt know i knew about it. Then aft...

A.   14 December 2009: lastnight, he told me that hes been really busy viseting his mom like full time. I know its not entirly true. But, he said he wants to meet up tonight because he doesnt wanna explain the situation through texting. ... (read in full...)

Facebook ruins relationships?

Q.   I have decided that things like facebook and myspace are definate relationship problems... I was just on fb, and I decided to send a comment to my boyfriend, because we've not really spoken today, and I saw that he'd commented on a girl's photo. ...

A.   11 December 2009: yeah...facebook does make relationships harder sometimes. I found out my boyfriend has another gf thats pregnant and due january 9th, all on facebook. and ive also seen lots of comments ... I know how you feel, but if it was about a month ago, and... (read in full...)

Any suggestions to help our friend live a little?

Q.   My girlfriend has a friend who I've known for 5 years now. Now this friend is currently 21 and has never had sex. Actually she has never had a boyfriend or even been kissed before. This is common knowledge for anyone who had met her because she's ...

A.   11 December 2009: lmfao try and introduce her to some of your friends? as long as there not jerks. make sure there nice guys, not only wanting sex, but guys that are caring, responsible or whatever else. Dont introduce her to your friends that are only looking for... (read in full...)

How do I get over her?

Q.   I was great friends with my girl friend. We studied together and I helped her in ways that no one would ever do for another person. I beleived in her. After she passed her exams she apparently decided I was not worthy of her friendship and ...

A.   11 December 2009: spend as much time as possible with other friends to make up for the time u used to spend with her. when she sees u dont need her, and when she needs help studying again, she'll probably try to go back to you. but dont do it, she'll just do every... (read in full...)

I haven't heard from my boyfriend in almost 2 weeks...

Q.   I havent talked to my boyfriend in almost 2 weeks. I messaged him on facebook and asked him what's going on and he messaged me back last night and said "you told me to f*** off, so I did." I dont remember ever saying that to him, and it doesnt m...

A.   8 December 2009: Ok, so yesterday...he messaged me back and said that he would talk to me later... Do u think he actually will?... (read in full...)

I haven't heard from my boyfriend in almost 2 weeks...

Q.   I havent talked to my boyfriend in almost 2 weeks. I messaged him on facebook and asked him what's going on and he messaged me back last night and said "you told me to f*** off, so I did." I dont remember ever saying that to him, and it doesnt m...

A.   7 December 2009: I honestly dont know what happened. Everything was perfect. He was supposed to come with me out of town one day, but His mom was in the hospital so he told me to take pictures. Then the next day he didnt show up, but it was late, so i think ma... (read in full...)

My little sister is pushing me away

Q.   hello everybedy, I have a problem with my sister, she is two years younger than me and she is a teenager now; all my life she was telling me everything, we used to share everything, there were no secrets between us, but now I feel like she is ...

A.   1 December 2009: You cant. Eventually she'll get hurt, and she'll need to talk to someone. & you have to be there for her. When that happens, you'll earn her trust again, and she'll come to you when she has to talk and vent. I know it prolly sucks, but you were... (read in full...)

Is he giving me the cold shoulder, or is there something really wrong?

Q.   My boyfriend was supposed to come on a trip with me last friday, and he never showed up...a few hours later he texted me and told me his mom was in the hospital, and that he was there all night and his phone was dead, so his room mate brang his ...

A.   1 December 2009: He doesnt have a way to talk to me. If he lost his phone then he doesnt have my number, and he prolly doesnt wanna come over cuz he thinks i moved. (I was supposed to move yesterday).... (read in full...)

Should I end things with my wife in order to be with her sister?

Q.   i am overwhelmingly in love with my wife's sister, and have been for almost 4 years since her divorce. she has 2 boys. i am not in love with my wife and we haven't been intimate in years (at least 10). i want to divorce my wife, and begin a ...

A.   1 December 2009: wtf? what is ur issue? like, your going to ruin there friendship. There sisters. If your going to divorce ur wife. Dont try to get with her sister. You'll just start stuff between the family. Because your wife, will probably be a little bi... (read in full...)

Is he giving me the cold shoulder, or is there something really wrong?

Q.   My boyfriend was supposed to come on a trip with me last friday, and he never showed up...a few hours later he texted me and told me his mom was in the hospital, and that he was there all night and his phone was dead, so his room mate brang his ...

A.   1 December 2009: I had his room mates phone number on my phone, but i think it got removed...i have like no way to contact him and its stressing me out. ... (read in full...)

What is the source of this bleeding and discomfort?

Q.   I'm 15 though i turn 16 in 2 days. Me and my boyfriend have been having sex for a few weeks,we were both virgins to begin with but we always use a condom. I had my period last week and it finished on Saturday. On Sunday we were having se...

A.   1 December 2009: maybe you have a urinary tract infection, try peeing before and after you have sex...it will remove all the bacteria thats inside there before it gets pushed in deeper... Ive had it, but ive never went to the doctors for it. But if it does ge... (read in full...)

Should I smoke pot before sex?

Q.   Would smoking pot before having sex make it hurt less the first time?...

A.   15 November 2009: NO ! For me, it hurts more when i smoked up before sex. When you lose your virginity, you think omg its guna hurt alot and stuff. But really, if it hurt that bad the first time why would anybody do it again? I actually didnt find it that ... (read in full...)

What would you say if your 16 year old daughter asked for a hotel room?

Q.   Hey, this question is mainly aimed at mum's opinions but any others are welcome, and I'd rather you say what you think within reason and without too much of a lecture thanks. Basically, I've been with my boyfriend 1 year 8 months, I'm fifteen and ...

A.   14 November 2009: k, get her the hotel room. Maybe she just wants to hangout with her friends. If she was going to have sex, then theres noway your going to be able to stop her. If you dont get her the room, she'll have sex anyways, whethers its at his house, ou... (read in full...)

Why does my boyfriend want sex all the time?

Q.   y does my boyfriend want sex all the time and am not confortable with that...

A.   13 November 2009: My boyfriend was like that too. I may be pregnant, and he stopped talking to me when i told him. I suggest you find somebody else before you get hurt.... (read in full...)

Nausea, fatique, body aches...am I pregnant?

Q.   I've been feeling nauseous just about all day for the past couple days. I've also had head and body aches, and have been more tired than usual. My period isn't expected for another two weeks or so, but I'm worried I might be pregnant. Could I be ...

A.   13 November 2009: hm, only take a test after your period, or it might not work properly. & you shouldnt be having symptoms so early =/... (read in full...)

Late period, and pregnancy test is negative! What do I do now?

Q.   I just took a pregnancy test because I'm over a week late for my period, the test was negative... Should i take another one? If yes how long should I wait? And what should I do? I'm normally not this late!...

A.   13 November 2009: Im in the same situation as you. I took a test when i was 1 week late, and it was negative. But i now have quite a few symptoms, breast tenderness, headache, fatigue, ect. A missed period could be from stress. If you have any sympotoms of... (read in full...)

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