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writes:Hi there,Okay, so... I've been friends, really good friends with this chick going on 4 years. I've liked her in the past, at the beginning, for about a year, asked her out... no dice. I got over her, and had a relapse. I've like her for the last year or so. I tried asking her out again... she said she'd never go out with me...ever.The problem is... she's getting kind of flirty with me, and she doesn't mind me hugging her, doesn't mind me being around constantly, etc.... should I risk asking her out and losing a good friend?She is perfect.. in my biased eyes, I guess, she is everything and anything I ever wanted... I can honestly say that I love her....
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 September 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for the advice guys... I'm probably going to lay low for a little bit... just to kind of take all of the awesome moments in before I risk them.
The biggest thing was that she used to be in all of my classes last year and now this year she is in one of them... which is like two times a week...
I guess I'm going through withdrawal... there's something about her just "being there" which was so comforting and nice.
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reader, cak1298 +, writes (24 September 2009):
 aight dude ive done that before. its a hard call. but just trust this. if shes a virgin and u guys break up and shes still a virgin it might feel awkward for a lil bit but if u want her to be a good friend again u can get it. but still dont go to fast.if shes a virgin and u take her v card and u two break up then it will get messy. if shes not then your good to go.virgins usually get more emotional about thier guys. non virgins just get protective.but always talk to her friends. the people she hangs out with all the time. see if shes been talking about you. if she has shed diggin you. if not ask another one of her friends what shes saying. if her friends kinda stall before telling you something then u can tell them that ur gonna ask her out. if they dont keep it to urself. if u tell them most likely they wont tell her but they will bring you up in a convorsation.make sure u get the details bud. good luck ;)
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reader, Tigerlily +, writes (24 September 2009):
you say you two are really good friends? I'd ask her for advice on your situation. Tell her what you told us. As her what she thinks you should do. Then do what she says. :-)
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reader, Logan58 +, writes (24 September 2009):
Oh, this is a hard situation. I would really have to meet her first and see how you two act together! The only thing I can say is that you should go for it. The worse thing she can say is "no" and it seems like you guys would still be friends. Just make sure you tell her how you really feel.. As for the hugging and flirting, that's like mixed messages. Either she is beginning to like you back, or she is very comfortable around you... and both are a big PLUS! I Say GO FOR IT!!!!
Good luck, keep informed :P
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