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Will he want to get back together, or not?

Q.   So right now I find myself in a situation that I've been in before; and I don't like it at all.. I was with my most recent ex for only about one month (he just broke up with me two days ago). Now I know, this is a really, really short time that I've ...

A.   24 September 2009: Omg, girl. It seems as if he loves you so he doesnt wanna not be there for you. He thinks it isnt fair for you two to never see each other and doesnt want you to feel lonely or hurt.. Its obvious he still loves you.. He has got to be torn since he ... (read in full...)

Got carried away with a dildo?

Q.   Ok well, i kinda got alil crazy cause i have'nt had intercorse with my bf since ever,sooo one night we decided to have phone sex......i kinda shoved the dildo deep in me and i thought i was getting wett but it seems i was bleeding...what did i do ...

A.   24 September 2009: Well Im 16 and a guy so of course i dont have a vagina... but maybe its because you havent done it in soo long, the skin is being stretched again is making it bleed? I would advise to see a gynecologist if the bleeding persists ^_^... (read in full...)

Is urinating inside each other okay?

Q.   Okay, my boyfriend and i are both into a fetish called watersports. It's got alot to do with urination. Well my boyfriend likes it when i pee in him, and vice versa, but i was wondering if it was okay? Like, is it safe for us to be urinating inside ...

A.   24 September 2009: Yes ma'am.. it is COMPLETELY safe to do this! Many, many couples have done it.. and birdy is right in saying that its sterile.. completely okay... (read in full...)

How do I give good phone sex?

Q.   My boyfriend wants to have phone sex with me. I would love to try it but an not sure what to do to make it enjoyable for him. I know to moan and breathe heavy and that kind of stuff, but what else do guys like. What are some things I can say to him ...

A.   24 September 2009: Listen to Illithid!! He knows exactly what is good. I had phone sex before and my girl did the exact thing, and I honestly loooved it....... (read in full...)

He's never been good at relationships but what is your opinion?

Q.   Ive known this guy for 4-5 yrs - Lets call him "Robert".We were friends and some point jumped into intimacy. He was a drinker who expressed his naughty feelings for me and would be touchy feely in public,get jealous when I was w/ other guys.We ...

A.   24 September 2009: Hun, he seems like he is confused. He seems also like he doesn't know the meaning of "i love you". I'm in a new relationship with a girl I known for 2 years.. I told her I loved her the other day, and I MEANT IT.... those are strong words, and he ... (read in full...)

How can I let my friend know that I care?

Q.   A very good male of friend of mine emailed today and really opened up about how he was feeling miserable (he didn't get a job that he really wanted) and that he is finding it difficult to cheer up. I was really upset when I read his email because I ...

A.   24 September 2009: Maybe you guys could chat on the phone or by IM... maybe like yahoo! Messenger ...or get on facebook or myspace! Talk a bit, and just make him happier by talkin and chilling with him :)... (read in full...)

Am I blowing this out of proportion?

Q.   ok I was here last week asking if i was blowing it out of proportion. With all of your help and friend and family i realized i was not blowing it out of proportion. I decided that i want a divorce and to move back to the place we just left. i have ...

A.   24 September 2009: It seems like you love each other still, and it sounds like he is truly sorry about what he has done. It's your call about giving him another chance... I think you will make the right decision... (read in full...)

Should I leave her to experience and learn for herself?

Q.   so i have a good friend and she started going out with this guy about 3 months ago who is an absolute arsehole.. he actually reminds me a lot of my exboyfriend whom i was with for 3 years which only ended in heartbreak... its so hard seeing her put ...

A.   24 September 2009: Oh my gosh. tell her she should leave his ass.. He sounds like a REAL ARSE... and the drugs and negative attitude make it SO much worse. Hun, I know a girl can feel like she is loved so she wont leave, but she needs to come to her senses. NO ... (read in full...)

Should I risk our friendship by asking her out?

Q.   Hi there, Okay, so... I've been friends, really good friends with this chick going on 4 years. I've liked her in the past, at the beginning, for about a year, asked her out... no dice. I got over her, and had a relapse. I've like her for th...

A.   24 September 2009: Oh, this is a hard situation. I would really have to meet her first and see how you two act together! The only thing I can say is that you should go for it. The worse thing she can say is "no" and it seems like you guys would still be friends. Just ... (read in full...)

I love him, how do I prove and show to him that I am terribly sorry?

Q.   Me and my ex boyfriend have been off and on for about a year now. we just start "talking" again. Pretty much dating, and i mess everything up and flirt with one of his bestfriends. Which is one of my ex's too. I really do love this guy..and he lo...

A.   24 September 2009: I'm in a relationship myself... a new one. If I found my girlfriend flirting with my friend, I admit I would be VERY pissed, but I wouldn't be all emo. I would be a little mad so I would talk it over later.. Don't get too down, but he shouldn't be ... (read in full...)

It's a love story... or is it?

Q.   hi again i know i'm not actually 40 i'm 13 i think they got it wrong and soz for length had a lot to explain Right, in my last post i said about being shy about hugging my bf well now i've done it there's more problems.so, i was at cooking class...

A.   24 September 2009: Hun, you really can't do anything about it. CaringGuy is right in saying that you have nothing to do with it.... so you just need to let them work it out themselves... ... (read in full...)

No no to doggie style!!!

Q.   I'm a teenager and have been seeing my boyfriend for about 8 months. We recently started having sex (he isn't my first). And every time we do it, he seems to be wanting doggy style. I find it excruciatingly painful and we've talked about it several ...

A.   24 September 2009: Hi hun, No does mean "NO!" Tell him you do not want it, and if he insists, cut him off or leave him. He shouldn't be hurting you for his own sexual desires! Sex is when BOTH the woman and man are fulfilling the desire of one another, kinda like a ... (read in full...)

Making a move on the math teacher

Q.   im a male and i like my male math teacher when he is teaching i fantsise about him and he is so hot. i dont know if he is gay or straight but if he is gay i want to make our relationship go further. i have an A in his class and we talk on facebook ...

A.   24 September 2009: Man, it's okay that your fantasizing and such, but he IS making moves if he is showing you pics of him in his undies, and also wanting you to come over "for math". Honestly, your underage sooo I wouldn't do it... it's all about personal restraint ... (read in full...)

He promised me he'd always be at my side but that was a lie. Help!

Q.   Hello everyone. I just need a little help, if not that, support, to get through this. My boyfriend, whom I have been with for two years straight, broke up with me last night. I didn't want to let him go because we really had something there. And for ...

A.   24 September 2009: Hun, you need to find a new guy. I'm 16 and honestly I have a new relationship and we love each other deeply already. Softtouchmale is right in saying that he probably doesn't know what he wants and should probably have room to spread his wings. But ... (read in full...)

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