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writes:Yesterday, something really scared me. I told my bf and mentioned to him that I was scared I was going to die young because of different "close calls." This morning and tonight, he hasn't called me or anything. I felt hurt like he didn't give a damn or maybe, thought I was crazy. I walk home daily from work late...I've been with him two years, it sucks that he doesn't seem concerned or anything. I would be if it were him telling me this. But anyway, am I overreacting on both counts?
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reader, here-to-hear  +, writes (10 June 2012):
I agree with the girls that there's no way of telling when you'll go and that you should relax and enjoy life.
And I seriously doubt that after two years together he thinks your crazy or doesn't give a damn.
It sounds like you're a bit stressed at the moment. Just try and relax. He might just be busy or is a little uncomfortable with your statement and doesn't know how to respond.
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reader, Anastasia  +, writes (10 June 2012):
 Yep I totally support Cindy's response. And I am happy that your boyfriend isn't feeding into your morbidity. It's really ridiculous. You can fall asleep and never wake up at any time. When it's your time, it's your time.In the meanwhile, enjoy your life and the time that you have with those you care about and love.Live your life
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reader, CindyCares  +, writes (10 June 2012):
 I think your bf is very smart in not feeding your morbid, irrational fantasies.
The truth is that you may be dead in the next 10 minutes, or you maybe live to be 100 and over,like anybody of us. There's no really way to predict it , and anyway if there were, there's nothing that your bf could do about it. So it is normal IMO that he prefers no to give unnecessary attention to this improductive course of thoughts.
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