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*lex90
writes:I used to like to someone in the school and we used to look at each other very often, anyway the school was over we didn’t see each other since then. Anyway, I found him on facebook and I added him and he didnt recognize who I really was ! then I told him the truth and finally knew me. However, I've started to notice that he says rude things to me then says he's joking. E.g. " you are hottie, I need a kiss" then "ops jk" and " we need to go to the movies and watch a very very romantic movies at the middle of the night" another example " come over to my house and sleep" I was like a little bit shocked !! I didn’t imagine that he could say such stuff especially we don’t know each other in person…he knows that I hate those things to be said but he instead says I enjoy PISSING U OFF !! :(I'm supposed to meet him for the first time during the next week , what do I do ? I feel that I like him so much but I'm a little bit uncomfortable toward him !! P.S Should I give him a chance that he might be different in the reality ?!! Plz help !!
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reader, BJacobs  +, writes (31 May 2011):
 well if its public messages or something he might be doing it to act funny for friends and or might not to know where to draw the line with joking. i would meet him and not worry about the things he said. if he turns out to be like that in person i would just drop anything and everything to do with him. you shouldnt get involved with someone who is verbally or physically abusive. good luck i hope things take a turn for the good
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (30 May 2011):
 You say you like this guy yet the way he behaves verbally you totally disagree with! You have never met him in person therefore what is it exactly that you like about him? I really dont see the attraction for you here. You need to take some time to yourself to think about things and ask yourself what it is you like about him and also can you tolerate him talking to you the way that he does. You need to think long and hard about that because to me it sounds like he is not going to change you have made it clear to him you do not like to be spoke to like that yet he still keeps doing it. I guess it is your decision to meet up with him but think long and hard about it before you do. Good Luck.
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