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*lwhy
writes:Okay I haven't asked any help for awhile, but I am starting to have problems again.So I have a friend that is also in my English class. We started as friends and soon we started dating. We were fine for the first two weeks we started dating until other situations came up. First, Her best friend recently broke up with her boyfriend and she has to comfort her for the whole week After that, she was busy with school for another week. Meanwhile, I barely receive any call or text back from her those two weeks. After that, I told her that we needed to talk and she said that she needed to talk too. When I called her, she said She didn't want to date me because she already see's me too much as a friend.I was sad about the outcome because it just happened so suddenly. I tried to not keep in contact with her but it is pretty hard since she is in my English class. I know deep down I still like her and I do want to be with her. I asked her to have lunch with me, but I haven't received a text from her yet.What should I do? I usually don't keep in contact with ladies I dated or had a relationship with. . But it is difficult since she is in my class. I know it is impossible to remain friends with her. Should I lose contact with her? or should I continue pursuing her? Guys and Gals opinion are appreciated.
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reader, elwhy +, writes (21 May 2012):
elwhy is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks Guys and Gals. I have decided to chose the no contacting route. I respect all your opinions.
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (19 May 2012):
 Go down the no contact route, am afraid she does not want the same things as you, so I think you need to give up trying, yes it is hard when you have to see her, but at the end of the day you will soon get over her. It is hard to try and stay friends, so try to avoid this as well. When you see her then yeah say hello or whatever but do not send her any messages or try to ring her, you need to accept that she does not want to date you and try and avoid her as much as you can so you can get this girl out of your head. Good luck.
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (17 May 2012):
 Don't talk to her unless it's unavoidable. Ah, and make sure you pass that course. Once you don't HAVE to see her, don't see her.
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