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*untahh
writes:Hey everyone, my story is somewhat long, so please bear with it and many thanks in advance.Firstly, I am 21 years old male and I have been attracted to a girl I work with (infrequently anyway) who is 22. I would say that, from the moment I first laid eyes on her, I was instantly attracted to her. And now even more because of the fact that she is not the typical girl. She is extremely pretty but just as shy. I have only really now (after a year almost) began really thinking about the possibility of pursuing her. The delay was mostly because each of us were studying alot, but I suppose it’s up to me to take the initiative..When I speak to her I can’t help but release a faint small at least, and I look so far into her eyes because they are just immensely captivating. Naturally she will smile back, but I don’t know if that is her just being polite like towards everyone else or what.Anywhow, because she graduates this year, she will no longer work with me. And I feel like she is somebody definitely not worth letting go. I don’t know if she feels the same - I’m not particularly great at reading women, especially so when they're naturally shy. I am also confused because when we talk I feel like there is some very subtle flirting going on with lots of smiles and deep eye-gazing, but I just don’t know whether she is into me.Should I just take the plunge and call her up one day? I mean I don’t really have anything to lose. I suppose it’s just that I don’t know whether she likes me in that way.
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (19 November 2011):
 if you don't ask you will never know... I vote for asking...the worst thing she can say is no...
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (19 November 2011):
 Well you have answered your own question really, you are never going to no unless you ask her out. So just take the plunge and do it, you have nothing to lose and so much to gain. Good luck.
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