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anonymous
writes:I can't get over my ex. He has a New girlfriend and says he is happy but I want him back, I'm still in love with him, we have a baby together and just want to be a family. Do I just ignore him and hope he will want to be with me again or do I be a bitch and try and break them up as I have messages from him his gf wont like, but risk him hating me
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reader, unknownreader  +, writes (11 April 2011):
 You need to concentrate on making sure you and your baby are okay. Spend all your time looking after your baby. I know it seems harsh but men come and go. Your baby is going to look up to you and love you forever.
If this boy has any feelings for you, he will come back to you in due time. If not then he doesn't deserve you. Where as if you try and split them, this is only going to cause more trouble. Not just for you. Your baby will be the one stuck in the middle when thats not fair.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 April 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionWe were together almost 3 years, the last couple months we just started arguing over anything and everything. I do think it started cause he wasn't ready to be a family. He sees his son prob 2 times a week, max 3 hours a week. He doesn't bath him, doesn't change nappies just plays with him. But i think I'm going to take the advice of playing happy ex girlfriend! Look pretty, act nice and hope in hell it gets me somewhere! Ur right, my son is the most important thing and no matter how much I'm hurting, I need to think of him
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 April 2011): Normally I would say ignore him completely but you have a baby together so will always have to have some kind of contact.Its a very hard situation when the father of your child moves on, especially when you still have feelings for him. I wouldn't mention the new woman or try to split them up, it just puts you in a bad light. Why not be the opposite, really nice - arrange access times for your child, always be upbeat and looking good when he picks up, drops off, your baby. Show him what he's missing but never have sex with him.If he really is into his new woman long term,then be ready to get over him and get busy, don't focus on him, focus on you and your baby - that's whats most important.good luck
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