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writes:Hey guys..I just got my heart shattered on valentines day... My boyfriend cheated on me... And he told me on v-day;( but I still love him and care about him deeply... I don't know what to do.. Cuz know i'm starting to fall for his friend... And his friend like me too... But I still Care about my ex.... I'm scares to fall in love again... Should I just forget about my ex... And go for his friend or no...
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reader, Babyboo:) +, writes (22 February 2010):
Babyboo:) is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI can stop thinking about my ex... What do I do...
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reader, Babyboo:) +, writes (22 February 2010):
Babyboo:) is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHey guy...
Thanx got the advice:) I just forgot to tell you one thing.... He is still with the girl he cheated on me with...
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 February 2010): I am sorry for how you have been hurt. But I personally think you should steer clear of both of these guys for now. You are upset and hurt, and I think you should give yourself some time and space to deal with what has happened, and think about what you want. Don't rush to make any decisions, and don't rush into the arms of another guy. You are bound to be feeling vulnerable right now, and you might regret it if you made a hasty choice.
If your ex is genuinely sorry for cheating and wants to work on the relationship, then let him prove that to you. Let him work at showing you he is serious. If he doesn't seem concerned though, then I don't think he is worth your effort. I know you love him, but if he cannot respect your feelings enough to be faithful, then he just isn't worth it.
As for the other guy, take some time to decide what is happening with your ex first, otherwise the situation could become more complicated. If you do decide to go for him at some point, then make sure it is because you really do like him, and that he treats you nicely, not becasue you are feeling lonely. Focus on taking care of yourself for now, give yourself time to think. I hope this helps. x
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (22 February 2010):
What a lousy boyfriend to cheat on you and tell on you Valentine's Day. That's almost one of the lowest things I've ever heard. You need to spend time getting over him rather than going out with another guy right now. If you still love your ex, it will cause you serious problems in any new relationship, and that's not fair to the next guy. Spend time on yourself for now, and get over this ex.
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