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*oredofit92
writes:Hi! So i've posted questions in the past relating to my ex-bf, who i was with about 3 and a half years but anyway thats over. The thing is, before I was with my bf there was this guy at college and it was so obvious to everyone we had chemistry (except my ex who wasnt my bf at the time ha) everytime we went out we ended up kissing each other but it was kind of a secret ummm it was weird i guess cos i was also kind of seeing my soon to be bf. I never do this usually but everyone was single so it was fine. Anyway ive always had a thing for him and now that im single i was taking to him over Facebook the other day , he gave me his number, told me he would tell me when he was next out, text me like 'night night xxx' (hes not the x kinda guy) and previous to this i had seen him and he was like give me a kiss on the cheek, are you still with ur bf etc. Then i text him the next day and he ignored me hahaah I shouldnt be bothered but cos i like him i cringed. Spoke to him last night he's all flirty but he just doesnt take it all the way he like turns it into a joke when i call his bluff...but he's defiantly not shy. Im just confused with these mixed signals he hasnt text me since he gave me his number and asked for mine...he doesnt speak unless spoken to but then he's super flirty...weird. Im probably just on the rebound but i dont want a relationship with him i just want to have a laugh with him one more time haha i guess everyone has that person in life they just fancy and feel like a 13 year old again when you speak to them. Anyway sorry for the rant im trying to ask should i just be super forward and tell him i like him? Or do you think i should give up as he doesnt seem too eager to be in contact...men are confusing.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 May 2012): Been there felt that..
infact he might actually have feelings for you so if you just hang around with someone else there is a high probability that he might just back off and u will be left with this guy...
Ask him straight forward whether he likes u and if he wants to hang out with you..
Give it a try...Dont loose someone just bcos he didnt say it at the right moment
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