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writes:My 2 bestfriends are dating each, one is a senior and the other is a freshman, prom is comming up and she can't go with him because her mom won't allow it. So he's been getting upset since he couldn't find someone to take to prom, so I mentioned to his girlfriend that he could ask me and I would go with him as a friend if he wanted to. She told him that he should ask me and he said he was for sure thinking about it and that he wanted to ask. He's really shy when it comes to this kind of thing, so he's been hinting in ways, he's asked if I would ever wear a dress, if I would ever hang out with him without his girlfriend, and so on. So it's been a couple of weeks and it's starting to bug me in a way, it's like I just want him to ask me already! So my question is, should I bring it up to him or should I just wait for him to bring it up?
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reader, TimmD +, writes (6 April 2010):
 If you are truly just friends then you should bring it up. If he is holding off asking you because there are some feelings between you two...then that changes things.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (6 April 2010):
Hmm. I'm not sure you should, for the sake of your friend. She might just get a little insecure about it. He doesn't need to go with someone.
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reader, TasteofIndia +, writes (6 April 2010):
 I think you should bring it up to him. He probably is nervous about asking someone who isn't his girlfriend. Make this situation a whole lot less awkward and just go ahead and bring it up to him. No use dragging it out any longer!!
Good luck, sweetness!
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reader, Tasmanian devil +, writes (6 April 2010):
 Why not just bring it up, its friends all the way, and he wants to go with you, so its not like he'd reject you
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