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writes:You've probably heard this a thousand times. But I'm going to spill it anyway. I'm 13 and the guy I am in love with is 17. He told me he feels the same way too. But I'm not sure if I should continue this...It's gonna be a heck of a long story but I would appreciate it if you read this =].There's two dance teams in our school, one's the senior and one's the junior. So, obviously I'm in the junior one and he's in the seniors. Since it was my first year in highschool, i had to audition to get in. He was one of the judges! haha. So i got in with my bestfriend and from then on the guy and I drew closer and closer to each other. He was one of the choreographers too, so whenever I had troubles, he'd butt in and help me with the dancing. A few weeks later he started sending hints through msn that he likes me or what not. Flirtation was a big part of it, he'd shown a lot of care too, when I'm sick and stuff. Not too long after that he asked me to move to his locker. (November 1st) I accepted the offer since I've always wanted a top locker anyway haha! But i didnt move in until November 16th. So from then on we got even closer and what I didn't expect, finally happened. I fell for him. I don't know how but i just did! I was too afraid to admit that I liked everything about him. The way he dances makes my heart beat so fast and whenever I'm sad he's always there to make me laugh or respects me whenever I need space and stuff. The way he smiles and laughs brings out joy to me and he tells me that if anyone messes with me I should just tell him and he'll do all the dirtywork haha! -.-! I finally told him I liked him [Dec.14]Him: may i know who missy likes ;]Me: who? ha?Him: who do u like? lol!Me: erm...get ready haha!Him: (:Me: *types his full name*Him: oweee... 3He didnt exactly say he liked me too but he said that when a girl confesses doesn't mean the guy confesses too. But a month after that wen i took the bus with him, he finally said he likes me too. [Jan.10] From then on we seemed like couples. He'd walk me to class and didn't care wenever he'd be late just for me, haha. The seniors and my friends had asked if we were going out but we'd deny it since we aren't anyway. [not yet? lol] One day it was dark already and we just got dismissed from dance practice. He offered to drop me off my house but i told him to just drop me off teh mall since i live near there. I asked him why would he want to drop me off and he said because he doesnt want his wife(me) to go alone in the dark since homo ppl might hurt her haha! So he was all like imma protect you and stuff 3 We were going to take the bus - the bus that we missed and ended up running after while he was holding my hand. We still missed it though, so we decided to walk through the park since there was a short cut there [to the mall.] He held my hand the whole time, without a word, without a sound until when i finally asked him if we could stop for a bit. He asked why and then i slowly came up to him and hugged him from the back. So i guess that answered his question. I was hugging him for a few minutes until he took my hand and twirled me around andtold me i was his princess. itwas like a complete fairy tale. It's all i've ever wanted. He respects me too, i hav not kissed him yet, but he has kissed me on the forehead. I don't want people saying ANYTHING about sexual matters because i can tell he has no intentions at alland neither do i! im much too young for tht and plan on staying a virgin until i am married hah! so as he. Now the problem is:1. im not allowed to go out.2. I dont wan t ppl saying hes a pedo/lg hunter (he said he doesnt care at all tho) 3 3. It's all awkward when were flirting and the seniors lookat us ==''He's hinted tht hes asking me out on valentines, should i say yes? i'd love to, but im afraid of the consenquences...*Additional Details*He's graduating this year, I'm sad about it but he said not to worry because he'll visit me often and will still teach dance and he said tht he will take care of me no matter wat. But wen we went to watch a movie, I cried in his arms unexpectedly because he told me hes going to miss me and now hes thinking of failing just one grade for me but i disagree! he's sure he wants to do this though! i should hit him for this ==''BLEHHH, HE'S SUCH A SWEET PRINCE CHARMING ! TwT !
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reader, samantha_love  +, writes (3 February 2009):
haha welll thats good just be careful if you do decide to
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 February 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthank you the help , and no way , no sexual things (:
promise ! haha . (:
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reader, samantha_love +, writes (2 February 2009):
no hun its not illeagle its perfectly fine as long as you do not engage in sexual things and if you do nobody finds out but i do think that yall are a good for eachother and you should be happy you found somebody
let me kno how it works out for you
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reader, angusforgemma  +, writes (2 February 2009):
I'm in a similar position to you, except i am the older guy, all i would say is go with what makes you happy, age may be a problem now, but in 20 years it wouldnt be.And no it's not illegal unless you engage in sexual activities (not including kissing), dating is perfectly fine.Just do what makes you happy, and if you feel uncomfortable tell him, if you want to chat anything else through, let me know.
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reader, lilbabyx +, writes (2 February 2009):
no not really as long as u dont have sex its fine
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 February 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionOH and wouldn't it be illegal to be dating him tho ? =/
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 February 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionawee, thank you guys for the help ! I'm glad nobody went on GOING FAR if u get my drift, haha,yes, yes imma keep dancing for him 3 WOOT. haha,soo, all i have to do now is wait for him to ask me out haha, such a shy boy =.= LOL 3
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reader, jazmarie +, writes (1 February 2009):
 dancers!!woot woot..i think this is love..age is nothing but a number..just respect one another i wish my ex.would think just like you prince charming does..lol we broke up because of my age..anyway just dont go to far..keep dancing...because everyday is an audition
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reader, samantha_love +, writes (31 January 2009):
well i have alot of insight to this im going out with a senior to and im a freshman and we go to different high schools but im allowed to date and im also 14 dating an 18 yr old but i have alot of hardship with our relationship like he just joind the army and has to go away for 3 monthes and every time that i think of it i get kinda depressed that he would leave me and i think that thats what your going thru if you really like him then just support him in any way that you can let him kno how you feel and if he feels the same way that you do i think that you will last and maybe if you talked to your parents on your datin gsituation and let him meet your rents then they would have a new respect for you if they felt that you trust them it worked for me
good luck and keep me updated
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 January 2009): GO 4 IT!!
Dont worry bout what other people think
its your life just go 4 it darlinn!!
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