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writes:last weekend somthing scarey happend at my best friends house i dont want to say much but the police came and my best friend didnt get hurt but her dad did somthing scarey to her mom.that same weekend on saturday we went to the movies (the accident happend sunday)and now she wants us all to come back all my friends told their parents well they overheard them tlking about this on the phone and their parents said they cant come to her house they are too afraid to go anyway ( my best friend said everything is ok but im still not sure ) ok heres the problem i didnt tell my parents and she invited me to her house i told her i could come but now all my friends are going to another friends house and we are meeting at the movies later so its just me her and her camp friend whos parents could care lessshould i go to her house?or should i go to my other friends house meet her at the movies but risk our friend ship
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 April 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthank you for answering i decided to go to my best friends house her dad was not there so i am fine :D
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (24 April 2009):
Why can't your friend (the one with the violent dad) come to this other girls house too? Why do you have to choose?
If you just say to her "well everyone else is meeting at Sarah's place so why don't I pick you up and we'll go there?"
You need to be there for your friend and let her know that people aren't avoiding HER, just her parents. It might do her good to get out of the house for a bit so why not invite EVERYONE to your place.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, mrs.smith81608 +, writes (23 April 2009):
You sound like you've got a good head on your shoulders. I would say trust your gut. If you don't feel comfortable, you won't have fun there. You'll be miserable-be honest with your friend. At first there might be some hard feelings, but if your friend is REALLY your friend, they will understand. If nothing else, once you see each other at the movies invite them to hang out with you and your other friends. I would also tell your parents about what went down, so they can help you also. Trust me, your parents might be uptight like mine were when I lived at home, but they will give you the right advice every time.
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