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writes:Hello Everyone,My problem is rather silly. but since it is eating my brain up i decided to post it here and look for answers as to what i shall do next.i have an online friend for a year. we had very friendly conversations but that was about it.some 2-3 months ago he started showing interest in me otherwise. we decided to meet for some time. after meeting he told me that he wanted to get sexually involved. i was not sure because he was not the kind of person i wanted to be with but i felt bad for thinking in such a shallow manner so i told him that i would think about it.some weeks later i was unwell and he came to see me and we ended up kissing. some weeks after that we had oral sex. but that day onward he has been talking very little as if ignoring me. he says that it is work and he is really busy now a days. but this is not making sense to me.i dont know if i should forget him or give him time.please help.thanks is advance....
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 March 2018): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you for answering...
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reader, mcdonald  +, writes (16 March 2018):
IM not sure if this will help but i hope it does from what i can tell it sounds like hes the shallow one to be honest it seems like hes only tried speaking to you and getting close to you for one thing i could be completely wrong though he could genuinly have a lot on his work load in not going to tell you what to do as in weather you should walk away or give him to.e but i can only advise that you do what you feel is right follow your instincts and listen to your heart only you know what will make you happy but if he was only in it for one thing which he may not have been but if he is/was then you deserve so much better because at the end of the day only you can make you happy and the decisions you make have to be right for you i hope that helps at least a little bit take care
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reader, Lucky420 +, writes (16 March 2018):
 Give him time? To do what? Sounds to me like he just wanted a casual encounter with you and nothing more. Now that has happened he has no reason to make himself available to you. You didn't want to become sexually involved at first but then you did. Whether he manipulated you into this or not is something only you truly know. What I would suggest is that you move on from this man and do not wait for him to contact you.
Best of Lucky.
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