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writes:Ok here's my situation:I've got to know this girl through a friend and we've mostly just been speaking on msn but we have seen each other around and about town.Anyway she recently split up wth her bf and we kinda both told each uther we like each other but obviously thought we should meet properly before going out with each other. Anyway we were texting the other day and she seemed to be a bit off with me and I found out that she likes this other guy as well. She says she still wants to meet up with me though because she doesn't know who she likes.Sorry to ramble....so I have two questions:Should I even meet her when she's messing me about?Where should I take her? because like we aint really going to get to know each other at the cinema.Thanks for reading and please help lol!
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reader, Jon1230 +, writes (8 December 2008):
 Yep i agree,hard to get is the right way forward mate
If she's interested she will chase you
Jon
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 December 2008): Thanks for your replies everyone. Usually I would play hard to get and say its not good enough saying you might like me etc but she hasn't met me properly so its kinda hard to get her to like someone she hasn't properly met. She said she wants to meet me to make her decision easier one way or the other.
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reader, babyminow  +, writes (7 December 2008):
 yes i think you should meet with her. maybe yall with both find to like eachother plenty. and try dinner and ice skating. tons of time to talk, good luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 December 2008): hmm, i wouldnt exactly say that she's messing you about - after all she told you that there's someone else she sort of likes - i know what its like likeing more than one person at the same time and not knowing who to go for.
if you really like her i'd say you should still meet her - dont give up without a fight.
and as to where to take her, thats always a difficult one, your absolutely right about the cinema. well maybe you could go for a walk in the park if theres one nearby.. although it may be a bit cold around this time of the year. maybe go to starbucks or somewhere lik that, its nice and warm in there and great place to talk.
maybe you could ask that friend of yours if he/she knows where this girl likes to go and take her there if its not too far or too expensive...
well i hope this helps a little.
good luck xx
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reader, Mr-M +, writes (7 December 2008):
 Hey, i'd just like to say that if she said to you that she likes this other guy, but wants to still meet up with you, then tell her that not knowing who she likes isn't good enough for you and you want her to be sure it's you she wants. You can't meet up with a girl who isn't sure she even wants to be meeting you. As for the second question, if you do take her somewhere, try taking her for a nice walk around town, or to a starbucks or somewhere where you can get a quiet drink/bite to eat and can have a chat with one another to learn more about eachother. Hope this helpsM
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