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female
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51-59,
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writes:I married very young to a really good guy that I dated exclusively for 3 years during high school. We have been married for almost 20 years and things are good... gets better each year. I am thankful that I chose well and life has been good. To be honest though, I feel like I've missed something. I love my husband, but I have never felt passionately romantic for him. I am missing that now.Is there anything I can do to make this better? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 April 2011): your life is picture perfect.. do not create problems. stay in peace.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 April 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionNo... it's not about sex... that part is very good. :) And yes, "female anonymous reader", he does deserve me, I've been a very good wife and friend to him...I have always put him and our family first. The nasty comment wasn't warranted at all, but anyways... thank you for your opinion.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 April 2011): yes for once let it not be about you, hes given you everything that makes you say that life is good, you mean in 20 years you still haven't felt like the least he deserve is good romantic sex. do an internal audit and switch the shoes for a while. don't walk a mile, walk a few steps and see how you like it, he deserves better
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reader, IHateWomanBeaters  +, writes (8 April 2011):
 Yes there is.
Put yourself in this scenario.
You are walking on the beach and you stumble upon a lamp. You pick it up, rub it, and out comes a genie. The genie says, "Thank you for setting me free, as a reward, I will grant you three wishes. However, I am not a regular genie, I grant you three sex wishes. What are your deepest, darkest fantasies? Wish for anything and it shall come true."
Now think seriously.
What are some of your sexual fantasies that you have wanted to do your entire life, that you have never done?
Once you have those in mind, talk to your husband about it.
The key to passion is finding out about you and your partner's fantasies and fulfilling them.
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