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*eyx
writes:I don't want to write an essay but basically I've being dating this guy for 2 months. It's like when things are really good the week after the relationship goes bad. He tells me that his not using me and that his not dating no one else and that it takes him a very long time to commit to a girl as he likes to take time getting to know them which is fair enough. Now a month ago things were goin bad so I just deleted him off my blackberry and deleted my facebook so maybe not having him i'n my face I would move on.. 3 days passed he calld and text me confused,angry and upset that I deleted him. Every problem we'd hav I'd go c him at work n we'd always make up.Now after a week of sorting things out n being perfect it goes wrong again. He ignores me for a whole week as I text and call him. In the end I send him a goodbye text accepting that it's over. 2 weeks later he cassually texts me at 2 i'n the morning asking to see me but I was sleeping so I never replied back. I left it for a day and said we should meet up and talk as I don't know what he wants from me? I don't know if it's over? I get no reply. His friends prank me and then I start to curse him and it ending up into an arguement. A week later (which is now) I still feel like I can't move on with out a straight answer from him. I'm thinking of goin to see him at work as I always do. I don't know what else to do? :(
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reader, Jeyx +, writes (15 August 2010):
Jeyx is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI know I know . It's just I'm 18 I've Neva had a boy friend and I guess I rushed it wiv this guy thinking maybe his the one. So when it went bad I just kept holding on even though what we had was not stable . I guess you learn from your mistakes an it's sad it never worked out but I guess it wasn't meant to be after all..
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 August 2010): Dating is meant to be fun, not putting up with this rubbish. Delete him and ignore him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 August 2010): you're confused because of your feelings for him. he is fooling around. do not answer him at all. if he asks you personally.. then tell him you have moved on and you dont like him that way. after that do not give him a chance. ever.
if he likes you he will make the effort. and you will know.
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reader, mattnette  +, writes (15 August 2010):
why dont you just change your numbers altogether?seems like you still hope that the two of you would reconcile and be back in each others arms again.
do have a closure, by ignoring you even for just a day, you must consider it a closure..now if he wants you back, start from scratch.
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reader, Jeyx +, writes (15 August 2010):
Jeyx is verified as being by the original poster of the questionLol basically I went to see him at work he was on lunch so one of the workers said. I left the store and text him I'm comin to see him. He texts back saying his at home and why I want to c him after everything. I said to sort things out and find out if it'd over n stop thinking there's still a chance. He says what makes you think there's another chance after all that :S giving me no explanation why telling me to piss off and move on. I start telling him bout him self lol I burned him as I said gd luck finding someone who would deal wiv u. And he texts back saying his gt sumone... Liess he asked to c me last week. Ahh I'm so happy I got my answer now I can look forward and not back. Some guys are just arseholes!!! Thanx for the advice x
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reader, Tell Tina +, writes (15 August 2010):
Hi
I think that you really need to move on, cause it seems like only when he wants you he calles you and you go jumping which I understand because I use to do the same but you just need to ignore his calls and textes and do you and find some one that would put their time into you and not when they want.
Take care
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reader, orionskarma  +, writes (15 August 2010):
 No guy is worth that kind of BS. If he texts you again blow him off by saying you got a bad case of PMS and to avoid you at all costs.....,pms = putting up with mens shit
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